"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Good signs?

kanaka

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I know a good DJ would be focused on stimulating the things that lead to women giving off signals (creating attraction), nevertheless a man can't help but mention something thats been on his mind. Besides im still learning...

So i recently became friends with this cute girl in my class (not high school) and we seem to get along...very well. She says stuff like "omg you're so funny....you say the funniest things" bla bla. She remebers stuff i tell her and even brings them up again when something similar happens again.

Anyway this past few days i noticed she touches me now, she comes from behind and puts both her hands on my shoulder, stands close to me, looks in my eyes. She also has this habit of asking me after we've just had a meal if there's something on her lips (like sauce or crumb) even if her girlfriends are close by.

Normaly i didnt consider as anything except a friend, however, something knocked on my head and goes "she's into you".

I just wanted to know what you people think. Any wisdom is appreciated.

Thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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realsmoothie

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Son, you be blind. Get on it, before she starts wondering "what the hell is WRONG with this guy?"
 

James_Roberts

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Seconded. There's a window of opportunity with girls that slowly dwindles away if you don't capitalize it. The clock is ticking, my friend.
 

Pimp-sicle

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The difference between a guy that gets girls, and a guy that wishes he got girls is in his actions. This girl is giving you blatant signs of interest, now its up to you to close the deal.



PIMP
 

Jay Jay

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Just in case you missed what the other guys all said.

She Wants You!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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kanaka

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Ha ha, thats what i thought. Thanks for the heads up.
 
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