So i went to the strip club tonight which I haven't done for awhile, but I always find it to be an entertaining experience. Anyways, I wonder how much you guys correlate good sex with a good relationship in your experience. What IS good sex? What IS a good relationship?
There were a couple girls who I really connected very well with and it was interesting because the lap dance and sexual connection were good but not great. My current girlfriend is also really cool and fun, but not great sex.
Then theres this one girl who starts dancing on stage. From the moment she starts shaking her ass, I'm like DAMN, that girl gets it. I dance with her later and its exactly what I expected, just totally understands my sexuality, shaking her ass, on her knees, just dripping sex. But we have almost zero in common and she seems very high maintenance/drama. She seems like the type of girl that would be a total trainwreck to deal with on a day to day basis.
This definitely carries through to my dating experience as well. These psycho, clingy ex girlfriends are FVCKING AMAZING in bed, but they are impossible to deal with in terms of a relationship. It's as if evolution has offset their shortcomings in personality and mental health with an incredible skill to satisfy and understand our needs sexually. From a mens perspective this is just TORTURE!
What do you guys think? Have you found that holy grail mixture of great sex and great connection in a relationship? Or do you find that the crazy high maintenance ones are always the best sex? Is it worth it? Yikes..
There were a couple girls who I really connected very well with and it was interesting because the lap dance and sexual connection were good but not great. My current girlfriend is also really cool and fun, but not great sex.
Then theres this one girl who starts dancing on stage. From the moment she starts shaking her ass, I'm like DAMN, that girl gets it. I dance with her later and its exactly what I expected, just totally understands my sexuality, shaking her ass, on her knees, just dripping sex. But we have almost zero in common and she seems very high maintenance/drama. She seems like the type of girl that would be a total trainwreck to deal with on a day to day basis.
This definitely carries through to my dating experience as well. These psycho, clingy ex girlfriends are FVCKING AMAZING in bed, but they are impossible to deal with in terms of a relationship. It's as if evolution has offset their shortcomings in personality and mental health with an incredible skill to satisfy and understand our needs sexually. From a mens perspective this is just TORTURE!
What do you guys think? Have you found that holy grail mixture of great sex and great connection in a relationship? Or do you find that the crazy high maintenance ones are always the best sex? Is it worth it? Yikes..