"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Good sex book and women using sex myths against us.

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First of all, i got to ask. Are men really as bad in bed as women like to say? I would venture to say that they use this against us to damage our egos and keep us insecure. In any case, boys and men alike READ UP AND PRACTICE. You dont need a pill or anything but you to please any women, slut, mom, or daughter. Just an open mind, a little courage (might i suggest a shot of tequila?), and confidence. To this end I will suggest a good book:
Supersex by Tracey Cox
She has written a few books and so far most are good. Supersex is easy to read and if you really want to get a girl going, have her read it with you. nothing like talking about sex to get it started.

good luck.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'd recommend that book as well, and anything else by Tracey Cox. She's done one or two other interesting ones, I think one's called 'Superflirt'? All geared at women primarily, all good reading, all great for giving to your woman and getting her into sex!

I also reckon Tracey Cox would be dynamite in bed. I'd like to book her and Kylie Minogue for an Aussie threesome.
 

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to what standard are men in bed held to?

many times, the girl has just lied there, and expected me to do all the work.

most women think the guy should do all the work, and that they are doing enough by just being there
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
to what standard are men in bed held to?

many times, the girl has just lied there, and expected me to do all the work.

most women think the guy should do all the work, and that they are doing enough by just being there
Just out of curiousty, Addman, how dominate are you in bed?

I've never been with a girl who did not like me to take charge and follow my every command. Have you ever told these "dead fish", "Get on top and ride me, NOW."?

The key to good sex is communication and leadership.
Though I will admit, if a girl is a prude then you may need ALOT patience. I just next them (BTDT, never again.) An insecure girl, on the other hand can be persuaded with a little pillow talk.
 

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
I've never been with a girl who did not like me to take charge and follow my every command. Have you ever told these "dead fish", "Get on top and ride me, NOW."?
thats how I solved my problem ;)

and I was surprised when I realized how horny "prudes" could become when u completely sexually dominate them. I've turned more than 1 church girl into a sex demon just by spending a night with them.

I'm just commenting on the trend that the man is always expected to have to "do all the work", and be berated for it, despite the women not doing anything.

Unfortunately, in my experience, some girls just are inactive, and expected me to give pleasure without them having to do anything (they thought that "her just being there" was enough of an incentive for me). their contact information was promptly discarded, and I moved onto bigger and better things (36DD :rock:)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The worst sex you'll ever have is with a slut. They seem to have a wierd sense of what "sexy" is. They either just lay there and let you pound away till you're done, or they say things that they saw in porn that they think is sexy, but in truth is just strange.

Oh well, I'm done with sluts now. Where do you find these prudish girls?
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
to what standard are men in bed held to?

many times, the girl has just lied there, and expected me to do all the work.

most women think the guy should do all the work, and that they are doing enough by just being there
logs!
 

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The Forms said:
The worst sex you'll ever have is with a slut. They seem to have a wierd sense of what "sexy" is. They either just lay there and let you pound away till you're done, or they say things that they saw in porn that they think is sexy, but in truth is just strange.

Oh well, I'm done with sluts now. Where do you find these prudish girls?
thats not a slut, thats a log trying to be interesting.
secondly, you will find the prudish girls in the library.
 

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lol logs

and I thought *I* was supposed to be the one who had wood...
 
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