"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Good reviews about Lincoln

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The movie you guys should see is Hyde Park on the Hudson. On the change between relations with Great Britain and the U.S. in the 30's. Will probably be getting this one on DVD to put it together with Public Enemies:up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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vantagepoint said:
The movie you guys should see is Hyde Park on the Hudson. On the change between relations with Great Britain and the U.S. in the 30's. Will probably be getting this one on DVD to put it together with Public Enemies:up:
I went to the movies to see Lincoln. best movie i've seen since Public Enemies ironically enough.

It will be a classic when it's all said and done IMHO.
 

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Public Enemies was one of my favorites too. Just the whole feel of another era plus Michael Mann directed.

You know every time Daniel Day Lewis get's involved in a project he just get's completely immersed into the character. I can't wait to get it on DVD.
 

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I read the Lincoln biography a while back and finally saw the movie tonight. I do recommend it.
 

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I read the Lincoln biography a while back and finally saw the movie tonight. I do recommend it.
I've see a couple of his biographies. If you want a good read in the mind of a great guy. Check out the memoirs of Ulysses S. Grant.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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