"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Good response when a women asks many people did u meet of POF?

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Or how many dates do u go on...Its obv a test when someone asks that, and I get that question a lot. Im usually honest, seemed to work so far. I want a general response that i can use for every time situation with different girls

Honestly I met a lot of girls off of POF and go on dates every week.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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whats POF?

- comic_relief
 
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"I've met about 115 people off the site, and about 27 of them were girls."

Say something that is obviously not true, but also has a bit of humour.

If she probes you more, then maybe be a bit more truthful: "met a few, just looking for someone I click with"
 
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runner83 said:
"I've met about 115 people off the site, and about 27 of them were girls."

Say something that is obviously not true, but also has a bit of humour.

If she probes you more, then maybe be a bit more truthful: "met a few, just looking for someone I click with"
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Right on the money, my friend. Though in my case, when pressed for more info, I just defuse with this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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