"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good response to "You Look Young" ???

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Any one know any good responses from women who say I look young?

I am 25 years old however most women assume I am 20 years so they always say to me "You Look So Young!" when I tell them my age. Really pisses me off as they say it in a way to try disparage me or make me feel inferior.

Anyone know any good alpha or ****y responses to that statement?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Say thanks in a cold, aloof manner and move on. It will make them start to doubt themselves.
 

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"Yea.. you should see how young my c0ck is."

"That's what the last beyach said to me before she tried to rape me.. your not going to rape me are you?"
 

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Think some of those responses are a bit over the top unless it's a night time environment where you already have rapport. Going with something like "it makes me more attainable" always works.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Say yeah I'm glad I do and you look really old.

Say I'm not too young to blow a load on you.

Say my c0ck is old enough to give great pleasure.

Say you're too old for my young d1ck.

Say I don't date girl with crows feet.

Say do you prefer a man with an old d1ck instead?

Say I didn't know you like men with old wrinkly balls.

Say you look older than my mother.

Say when was the last time you play with a pickle?

Say I hope you're pvssy isn't old.

Say where's that fish smell coming from?


Good ones you like?


LMFAO said:
Think some of those responses are a bit over the top unless it's a night time environment where you already have rapport. Going with something like "it makes me more attainable" always works.
Lame. It meant to be if they say it to make him feel bad and inferior.
 

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LMFAO said:
Think some of those responses are a bit over the top unless it's a night time environment where you already have rapport. Going with something like "it makes me more attainable" always works.
He asked for something Alpha or ****y... to let her know he is not a little push over beeyach.

I like "You should see how young my c0ck is.".. it gives them a visual.

And yes this is meant for a club so who gives.
 

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MillionBillionaire said:
He asked for something Alpha or ****y... to let her know he is not a little push over beeyach.

I like "You should see how young my c0ck is.".. it gives them a visual.

And yes this is meant for a club so who gives.
How about for texting or Tinder/online? Any good response to "You look so young!" ?
 

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spax said:
How about for texting or Tinder/online? Any good response to "You look so young!" ?
"Yea I get that all the time... lets get together this weekend." (Since she gave out a major ioi)
 

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These responses are kind of lame in my opinion but you asked for dumb replys OP...

Girl: "You look so young!"

Me: "The youngest guy you'll ever be with."
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Espi said:
"Thank you."

It's not what people say to you that matters. It's how you react.

In my opinion, a man who can accept a compliment (real or perceived) with a simple "thank you" is a man who exudes confidence. This signals to others that you have a high opinion about yourself. Which is about as "alpha" as you can get.

Minimizing, or defending, or trying to one-up them with some witty, corny comeback line is purely reactionary and diminishes personal power.

So just say "Thanks."
This.

I can easily pass for 5 years younger when I shave. And most women are surprised by my actual age. Good genes + black dont crack. I always simply say "thanks". And I will add that its due to vitamins, eating well, or working out.

I dont see why being called young would piss anyone off. Ive never encountered that remark as a put-down. Its either a compliment, or an older woman showing a lil apprehension with regard to dating someone younger.

OP, again...simply say "thanks" and keep the convo moving naturally.
 

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being or looking young is only bad if you're in your early 20s or below. or if she thinks you're too young for her(a problem that may only happen in your early 20s or below)

but if you're looking for a response, think of something funny is what I'd do

"I'm actually 500 years old but I age well, y'know black don't crack" <-- only use that last part after the comma if you're some sort of dark skinned race

"ah yes, the benefits to immortality"

"I feast upon the souls of children to maintain youth eternally, I know how you girls feel it's hard work looking this good"
 

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Say: "Thanks, it's a side effect of perfect genetics!"
 

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I'm 29 and some women thought I was 16. I took it as a compliment.....I won't reach my prime till i'm in my 40s, more time to sleep with young beautiful women
 

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I'm 42 and get mistaken for early thirties to 35. My babyface is paying it's dividends now.

Tell her your future wife is going to appreciate it as you get older and she looks like a leather handbag.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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Espi said:
"Thank you."

It's not what people say to you that matters. It's how you react.

In my opinion, a man who can accept a compliment (real or perceived) with a simple "thank you" is a man who exudes confidence. This signals to others that you have a high opinion about yourself, regardless of what they might think of you. Which is about as "alpha" as you can get.

Minimizing, or defending, or trying to one-up them with some witty, corny comeback line diminishes personal power. You're backpedaling, trying to strategize keeping up with THEM.

So just say "Thanks."
This. Espi knows what he is talking about. best way to win a game is to play by your own rules and in this case a simple "Thank you" is the right answer.

whenever you get a statement that can have more than one meaning then always answer like you are responding to a compliment and a criticism at the same time.
 

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im 30 but ive been told i look 21 22 lol

one time i said

good genes

but id rather not come off that way

just say thanks

or ask, is that a good or bad thing?
 

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Espi said:
"Thank you."

It's not what people say to you that matters. It's how you react.

In my opinion, a man who can accept a compliment (real or perceived) with a simple "thank you" is a man who exudes confidence. This signals to others that you have a high opinion about yourself, regardless of what they might think of you. Which is about as "alpha" as you can get.

Minimizing, or defending, or trying to one-up them with some witty, corny comeback line diminishes personal power. You're backpedaling, trying to strategize keeping up with THEM.

So just say "Thanks."
Absolutely this.

Wait till you find out how valuable that youthful appearance becomes when you get older. If you looked at me today you would swear I was in my thirties. But when I was 25 I would still get carded for alcohol, and the drinking age then was 18.

Consider it a blessing and thank those who mention it. As Espi says, this conveys a high opinion about yourself regardless of what others may or may not think. A woman will always believe about you that which you believe about yourself. They buy your own story.
 

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A simple thank you without returning a compliment. You're polite, but not showing interest. It's obvious she's noticed it about you, so the last thing you want to do is squash her initial interest by doing what the other typical guys would do.
 
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