"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good reply to this gal on myspace

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Im bored so id be intrested to hear people replys to what this gal has messaged me on space

this was my first message


Hi!

Ill be honest, i dont know who you are, and you probably dont know who iam, but we live kinda close by the looks of it and ive decided to try and talk to all the people on here that are on my friends list that i dont know!

So, Hi! Your profile looks cool, i read it, its kinda funny, your pics are cool too, i prefer brunettes to blondes but im not shallow, ill still say hi! lol

Im asking everyone to tell me one thing about themselves that i wouldnt know just by looking at your profile, and your no different!

So if you wanna chat, reply with your intresting fact and if not then you can get back to singing disney songs with your friend loz while perched at a top of a tree! :) (this was a reference to something on her profile)

toodles x


Then this was her reply

ok thats a fair point umm 1 thing aout me that you wouldnt knwo from my profille umm im not really sure i think every moderatly interesting about me is on my profile to be honest
umm im a pretty bubbly person who likes any kind of music at all i dont liek to be labelled my favourite film is finding nemo babyish- i dont care its awsome! i used stupid american words such as awsome wicked totaly coool usually when being sarcastic i dislike coffee and i dislike tea yet i like itw hen uv made coffee and stirred it and you can watch it spin!
uhh thats aout it relaly lol so uh yeah if you wanna talk to me then go for it
takle care charlie
xx
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ER!C L!VE

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lol

Reading those messages was like watching 7th graders interact at their first school dance.

I'll let you in on some secrets of myspace.

Leave comments and post bulletins and wait for girls to respond to you. The girls who respond with a question about your profile or you are usually interested in getting to know more about you.

Sending a girl a cold email on myspace takes too much time and the chances of a response are much less. You're actually lucky that girl replied.

What would I do if I were in your situation?

I'd reply to her saying, "i like your style - what's your aim or yahoo messenger name?"

BTW, are you both living in or outside of America? What is this girl's age?
 

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Yes we both live in england and shes 17 and im 19!
 

ER!C L!VE

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Yea, get her talking on messenger for a bit until you can tell you're both having fun talking with each other and get her number to talk on the phone. I like to shoot the girl a message saying, "you're fun! here's my number xxx.xxx.xxxx. Give me a call or let me know yours."

Best Wishes,

Eric
 

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i dont think toodles is a good way to say goodbye
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lol..toodles. I just saw that :crackup:

Yea, maing, Jizz, is 'toodles' currently considered some type of cool slang in England?
 

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"i dislike coffee and i dislike tea yet i like it when uv made coffee and stirred it and you can watch it spin!"

Yup, a blond!! :D If you ever meet her, make sure you're not wearing anything shiny--you'll distract her!:p
 

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Originally posted by Good_ol_boy
"i dislike coffee and i dislike tea yet i like it when uv made coffee and stirred it and you can watch it spin!"

Yup, a blond!! :D If you ever meet her, make sure you're not wearing anything shiny--you'll distract her!:p
:p
 

qweretyuiopas

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Originally posted by Good_ol_boy
"i dislike coffee and i dislike tea yet i like it when uv made coffee and stirred it and you can watch it spin!"

Yup, a blond!! :D If you ever meet her, make sure you're not wearing anything shiny--you'll distract her!:p
lmfao when i read that line i thought the girl was like 12 or something :crackup:
 

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lol yeh that line worried me a lil too!

As for Toodles, i wouldnt say its slang, its just cool funny way to say bye lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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When I think of the word "toodles", I think of Daisy Duck waving goodbye to Donald Duck. The worst part is, you're Daisy Duck.
 
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