"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good reply to this gal on myspace

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Im bored so id be intrested to hear people replys to what this gal has messaged me on space

this was my first message


Hi!

Ill be honest, i dont know who you are, and you probably dont know who iam, but we live kinda close by the looks of it and ive decided to try and talk to all the people on here that are on my friends list that i dont know!

So, Hi! Your profile looks cool, i read it, its kinda funny, your pics are cool too, i prefer brunettes to blondes but im not shallow, ill still say hi! lol

Im asking everyone to tell me one thing about themselves that i wouldnt know just by looking at your profile, and your no different!

So if you wanna chat, reply with your intresting fact and if not then you can get back to singing disney songs with your friend loz while perched at a top of a tree! :) (this was a reference to something on her profile)

toodles x


Then this was her reply

ok thats a fair point umm 1 thing aout me that you wouldnt knwo from my profille umm im not really sure i think every moderatly interesting about me is on my profile to be honest
umm im a pretty bubbly person who likes any kind of music at all i dont liek to be labelled my favourite film is finding nemo babyish- i dont care its awsome! i used stupid american words such as awsome wicked totaly coool usually when being sarcastic i dislike coffee and i dislike tea yet i like itw hen uv made coffee and stirred it and you can watch it spin!
uhh thats aout it relaly lol so uh yeah if you wanna talk to me then go for it
takle care charlie
xx
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ER!C L!VE

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lol

Reading those messages was like watching 7th graders interact at their first school dance.

I'll let you in on some secrets of myspace.

Leave comments and post bulletins and wait for girls to respond to you. The girls who respond with a question about your profile or you are usually interested in getting to know more about you.

Sending a girl a cold email on myspace takes too much time and the chances of a response are much less. You're actually lucky that girl replied.

What would I do if I were in your situation?

I'd reply to her saying, "i like your style - what's your aim or yahoo messenger name?"

BTW, are you both living in or outside of America? What is this girl's age?
 

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Yes we both live in england and shes 17 and im 19!
 

ER!C L!VE

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Yea, get her talking on messenger for a bit until you can tell you're both having fun talking with each other and get her number to talk on the phone. I like to shoot the girl a message saying, "you're fun! here's my number xxx.xxx.xxxx. Give me a call or let me know yours."

Best Wishes,

Eric
 

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i dont think toodles is a good way to say goodbye
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ER!C L!VE

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lol..toodles. I just saw that :crackup:

Yea, maing, Jizz, is 'toodles' currently considered some type of cool slang in England?
 

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"i dislike coffee and i dislike tea yet i like it when uv made coffee and stirred it and you can watch it spin!"

Yup, a blond!! :D If you ever meet her, make sure you're not wearing anything shiny--you'll distract her!:p
 

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Originally posted by Good_ol_boy
"i dislike coffee and i dislike tea yet i like it when uv made coffee and stirred it and you can watch it spin!"

Yup, a blond!! :D If you ever meet her, make sure you're not wearing anything shiny--you'll distract her!:p
:p
 

qweretyuiopas

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Originally posted by Good_ol_boy
"i dislike coffee and i dislike tea yet i like it when uv made coffee and stirred it and you can watch it spin!"

Yup, a blond!! :D If you ever meet her, make sure you're not wearing anything shiny--you'll distract her!:p
lmfao when i read that line i thought the girl was like 12 or something :crackup:
 

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lol yeh that line worried me a lil too!

As for Toodles, i wouldnt say its slang, its just cool funny way to say bye lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When I think of the word "toodles", I think of Daisy Duck waving goodbye to Donald Duck. The worst part is, you're Daisy Duck.
 
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