Good Read On How To Pickup Girls?

[gottagetthatgirl]

Hi,

so im in Hollywood Ca and there are tons of girls here. The problem is I guess im a bit clueless on how to get them. Is there a proper guide I can read about this thats at the bookstore or one online thats free.

I go to bars and stuff and there's ton of super model looking girls. Heck I can even go to the grocery store or anywhere and there's ton of girls. I just don't know how to approach them and close them. I can head over to the book store today and read how to do this if there's a good guide. Thanks guys

 

[rushing dude 123]

I am sure you will think of something to say, how do you know if you don't try. Do a few approaches and see how it goes and we will help you. if you need to read something just read the dj bible. Honestly you won't need more than that, to much reading picking up girls isn't good for you anyway, most of your teaching is going to be experience.

A book at the end of the day isn't going to do the approach for you.

Start of with something "hey look i am going to be honest i am not use to this and i don't really know what to say, but i want to talk to you, so whats your name?"

then just ask her anything your curious about, her clothes, what shes doing here, does she like it, where is she from (now and orignally how lond has she been here for), how old she is, does she have any brothers or sisters ( younger, older?), what does she like to do (how often she does it, how long as she done it for), does she play sports (what sports, is she any good), whats her job (does she like it, what did she do before), does she go to universirty if so what does she study (why did she choose to study it, any other subjects she also wanted to do)

At the moment this kind of sounds like an interview but to be honest this will probablly get you closes to be honest, girls are not that hard its just in your head. Just add a bit of humour and make funny comments on her answers, then once u get the conversation going just talk about whatever or any of the questions i put above and they will branch off into more stuff to talk about.

 

[gottagetthatgirl]

Thanks rushing dude. I usually approach girls and even get their numbers. But some girls never text me back when I text them and things like that. So I figured I must be doing something wrong.

I will approach....that's not a problem. In fact when I go out today I will approach 10 girls as a test. But this is going to be in stores because im not going to any bars. Is that DJ bible all free and what I really only need? Thanks

 

[gottagetthatgirl]

Thanks Rushing. I approach all the time actually...just not lately. Actually at the mall a few days ago I got a girls number but she never texted me back when I texted her.

Your information just sounds so basic. Im not saying it doesn't work but wouldn't the opener you gave me below make me look in confident?

" hey look i am going to be honest i am not use to this and i don't really know what to say, but i want to talk to you, so whats your name?"

It just seems this would make me look inconfident. Maybe im wrong? How long should I talk to the girl if im at say a book store or something? Thanks

 

[rushing dude 123]

ok try calling girls instead and only use text as a last option.

I see, so your thinking about day game huh, its actually more easier despite what a lot of people on this board might say.

Just see a cute girl walking on the other side of street, just go up to her lay your cards on the table and just tell her what the deal is (if she walks she walks) and just say you want to talk her. Then just follow what i said in last post, i am sure you know what to say to a woman if you have gotten numbers before. This is the same as a bar.

If you are in a store how ever her mind may be preoccupied on buying something, so maybe try asking advice on something like if shes in perfume section ask her what she think will be a good scent for a woman because its your sisters birthday (then ask what she wears). Then change subject to something else about her and then wow u got a conversation.


The dj bible is free, its basically the reading material of this hole site and all the advice you can hope for. You can also read some peoples journals that always helped me with my own approaches, you will probablly see them in the don juan disscussion forum.

 

[rushing dude 123]

Well i am just trying not to overcomplicate things for you, because they are not complicated. I have gone up to a girl and said " you have nice socks" and ended up going out with her 3 days later. Don't put to much focus on what you say first, the more important thing is the stuff you say after that and how you say it.

 

[gottagetthatgirl]

Thanks man. So basically it's just talking to her? I always have trouble following up though. Don't I need to show a low interest level or something first and not be too interested? I think im too smiely and nice when I first meet girls maybe?

 

[rushing dude 123]

ah just don't be a kiss ass nice guy thinking shes a queen and texting and calling her 24/7 chucking compliments at her all time and you will be good.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/wms.pdf < read this

 

[joe henny]

If your getting girls that flake it's cuz your probally going after girls that don't want you. Look for EYE CONTACT!!!. Also it doesn't take all those stupid PUA books to go up and say hi to a woman and have a normal conversation. Instead of just thinking of the puzzy take an interest in her as a human being and have a normal conversation.