oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
what are some good rap songs that ARENT mainstream? I want some fvckin raw underground shii...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
By good, i pretty much meant not mainstream. Atmosphere, Immortal Technique, Brother Ali, Deltron 3000...stuff like that, AND some people that YOU like.Soupar said:Depends what kind of underground you're looking for, theres everything from Jedi Mind Tricks and Outerspace to Atmosphere or even Mf Doom. There is A LOT of underground out there and its hard to narrow down "good music" for you if you don't give us something to base our ideas off of.
Yeah, many groups from the late 80's and early 90's. Ice-T, 2 Live Crew, Kool Moe D and LL Cool J.MrS said:Wutang Clan - 36 Chambers, their first album, maybe counts as mainstreeam but don't care
NWA - Straight Outta Compton, great pioneering rap album.
Tribe Called Quest, their 88-93 stuff, anything really, some good tracks, non-gangster-rap-rap.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.