"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Good Places just north of NYC for a Young Professional to live!

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ghengis Kahn

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Yonkers is an absolute dump...a true wasteland.
Rye - Wealthy area with beach & amusement park (Playland).
Harrison - Very nice, wealthy to upper-middle
Tarrytown - Fairly nice town but crowded. Lots of history.
White Plains - Very large city, poor to wealthy and everything in-between.
Yorktown Heights - Very nice town in upper Westchester.
Rents and real estate prices are off the charts here in Westchester, as I'm sure you already know.
 

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Ghengis Kahn said:
Yonkers is an absolute dump...a true wasteland.
Rye - Wealthy area with beach & amusement park (Playland).
Harrison - Very nice, wealthy to upper-middle
Tarrytown - Fairly nice town but crowded. Lots of history.
White Plains - Very large city, poor to wealthy and everything in-between.
Yorktown Heights - Very nice town in upper Westchester.
Rents and real estate prices are off the charts here in Westchester, as I'm sure you already know.
Thanks man. Yea, I thought Yonkers was a dump.

And yes, I am used to things being expensive..I am from New Jersey.
 
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