"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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good people and bad people.

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i always seem to take flak from alot of people sometimes because their down on their luck. i always just say "good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people." how true is that statement!

i think in the story book world, the hero saves the day and gets the girl.
and i think in real life, the villian comes out smelling like roses.

how many nice guys have converted to the darkside of the jerk?
what happens when a girl is dating the villian and he turns good? he's not so interesting anymore.

ever hear a girl tell you your evil with a come hither look in here eyes.

our soldiers go off to fight wars...how do most of their women repay them? cheat on them with other evil men who know that their men are gone!

in the music industry if you thank god for all your success=instant one hit wonder. if you worship the devil ala rock n roll=lifetime number 1's

the darkside is seductive.

what path have you followed?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Not always. "Bad" people get a bad reputation. Which means people don't trust you. Yeah, women might sleep with you, but every other aspect of your life will go down the drain.

What do you mean by bad? Killing someone? Being a terrorist? Smoking?
 

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i guess (bad people) we can refer to as rebellious. in a nutshell, people who go by the books always tend to complain that nothing ever good happens to them.

and the people who always tend to break rules and not give a dam, good fortune is bestowed upon them.

take the niceguy. he's the guy who follows everything by the book and when he does he's left asking the question....what happened?

the badboy who don't give a dam don't follow no book...cause he can't read haha... and thing always go his way.

since you mentioned smoking. while everybodies in working hard, i like to sneak out the back door and have a puff while the other workers get pissed but their to scared to rat.
 

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insanity said:
i guess (bad people) we can refer to as rebellious. in a nutshell, people who go by the books always tend to complain that nothing ever good happens to them.

and the people who always tend to break rules and not give a dam, good fortune is bestowed upon them.

take the niceguy. he's the guy who follows everything by the book and when he does he's left asking the question....what happened?

the badboy who don't give a dam don't follow no book...cause he can't read haha... and thing always go his way.

since you mentioned smoking. while everybodies in working hard, i like to sneak out the back door and have a puff while the other workers get pissed but their to scared to rat.
People that are afraid to break any rules or take any chances are rewarded with mediocre lives. Then they complain about it.

The bigger the risk the bigger the reward. You need balls and you have to take risks and be uncomfortable at certain points in your life in order to get the best out of it.

Whoever said life was supposed to be easy?
 

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What does being good or bad have to do with taking chances?

I would much rather associate with good people, but they are few and far between. I know girls, whose best friends talk trash about them and they are still thick as thieves--it's unbelievable! Weak people resort to bad behavior and people who are attracted to bad people are even weaker!

I had bad people, but the world is full of them so pick your friends and dating partners carefully!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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insanity said:
take the niceguy. he's the guy who follows everything by the book and when he does he's left asking the question....what happened?
Which book?

Seriously!

Which book are they reading and following? The run away and hide book? Don't take any chances book? "I'm a loser and you just confirmed it" book?

Please, tell me which book you are talking about?
 

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TheOne&Only007 said:
Bad men do what good men dream.
Man, I've got a bit of studying to do on that!

Never heard of it, never thought of it, never wanted to think of it...

"I love google" such a generous teacher... The first company I know that desrves the money;)
 
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