"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My parents are going out of town next weekend and I was wanting to throw a party. I want a medium sized crowd.

I probably won't be able to get any alcohol, but I will definitely have some weed.

I need some ideas on how to go about setting this up and making it a success.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No alcohol?...bad idea - get one of your friends to buy it and for every1 that wants to enter the party they have to pay $5. That will cover your costs for beer. Have a table setup for beer pong.

You can also say for every guy there has to be 2 girls.
 

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Dont charge for girls no one will come, and dont throw a party with your parents gone unless you have a lot of good friends to help clean up. Me and my friends did this and people will throw up, people will steal your **** no matter how much you know them, and people will break stuff. You should move everything out of the rooms people will go in and lock them in a bedroom. Have signs posted with arrows to the bathroom. Get a 15 gallon keg if possible. This is about 170 12 ounce beers, this cost about 50 bucks to fill up and however much to rent it if you cant get one. Also get some bottles of some hard liquor, mainly captain morgan and some cheap vodka. Peach schnapps is also not a bad idea.

Have it be free for girls no matter what, and for guy have it bring a bottle or 5 bucks a person. Also you need a good mix of music, try to avoid rap and stick to hip-hop, this will get the girls dancing and thats a good thing and will loosen up the mood. You cant let people park in front of your house, you need to have them disburse their cars among the neighborhood roads as far away as possible. If cops come make sure all people are inside, they cant come in unless they see a crime being committed in plan sight of the doorway. So dont step out cause the second you step outside the door sill you could be arrested if you doing anything wrong.

A party with no beer is a gay party, even if you have weed. Plus 40 people is a hell of a lot more people than you think when it comes to a house party, so invite about 30 at least a week ahead of time, and see how many of them plan on coming, because if you invite 15, then 30 will come becuase they bring friends. So invite 30 and probably 20 will say their coming, which means 40 will show up.
 

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Another thing is you should plan about 8 beers or shots for a guys and about 3-4 shots or beers for girls. Lots of girls wont drink beer so make sure you have plenty of hard stuff. I would say to have a quart for every 10 people at the party. The 15 gallon keg might be too much, but its better to overdue than to underdue. Plus it wont be that much of a waste if you overdue it.

90% of parties are failed parties, normally because of it being shut down, secondly becuase of it being a sausage fest, and thirdly becuase of lack of alcohol. So plan around that accordingly. Cops cant do anything to shut down the party unless cars are parked illegally, people are outside, or its obnoxiously loud, keep the stereo loud, but turn it up a few days beforehand and see at what point you can hear it from outside, then just dont turn it up past that.
 

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Wow, that's some great advice.
Like System of a Down says, byob.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The only reason its worth throwing a party is cause youll be known as the fun guy and youll get invited to many other parties in return if you do throw a good one.

If you already get invited to parties and everything dont even bother to throw a party. Maybe call some friends over but dont say youre throwing down, just say that youre having a little get together and whatever happens from there thats spontanuous will be better than planning a whole party.
But if youre really up to it and think you can throw a good one itll be worth it if you pull it off and nothing gets ****ed in your house.
 

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Thanks for the advice,


I talked to my older cousing last night and he told me he could get me any alcohol I needed.
 
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