good or bad ?

[Ser_i]

I had this party tonight at the house of this girl I realy realy like and want to get with, but things turned out differently,

I arrived with the intention to totaly blow this girl over with everything I got, but I ended up getting into conversations with other girls and I ended up with 5 phone numbers of girls.. now the problem is the following the first girl that I got into a conversation with is the best friend of the girl I intended to score this night. she's intelligent, looks 6,5 nice body and nice in general, she realy turned me on with her intelligence and wit someone on par with me.

anyway she also noticed me taking those 4 other phone numbers from other girls and she didn't approach me after that. well I avoided her cause I thought she'd ignore me since I got 4 other numbers aswell...

anyway the girl I wanted to score realy messed up big time, and I'm not that attracted anymore to her, and I'll probably won't be that kind to her after tonight. so did I do a bad thing with picking up that many phone numbers in the open ? as in everyone being able to see, I went from one to another.. or is it a good thing just showing that I can get who ever I want ?

If the first girl I talkd with asks me about this multiple phone number thingie I'll say to her: I'm a curious person, and meeting new people is something I like a lot. it doesn't mean that I want to get it on with every girl I meet with, We talked about that concept that night and you know I think the same way as you do.

 

[HuuBinh]

was it a bad thing for you? i guess taking numbers of many girls in the party while other girls see u, that'd make them feel that they're not as special. but as djs we probably don't even care much about that. if i were u, i'd focus on the girl that i liked the most. since those girls saw u getting all those numbers, u might end up not getting any dates from any of them. or u might date all of them bc of their competitiveness against each other.

 

[violator]

It is called social proof. When other girls see that you desire or are desired by other women, your value to them shoots through the roof and you will find yourself being chased by them.

Social proof is one of the most powerful weapons in a DJ's arsenal. Learn how to use it.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by violator
It is called social proof. When other girls see that you desire or are desired by other women, your value to them shoots through the roof and you will find yourself being chased by them.

Social proof is one of the most powerful weapons in a DJ's arsenal. Learn how to use it.

social proof can be great social proof was talking and flirting with 5 girls.

Nice job by the way

but try to be discreat about getting the number if you are picking up more than one

she may not want to take you up on that date if she sees that she is just 1/5 pawns in your game

 

[Ser_i]

thanx guys. the thing is .. she realy came over as a very intelligent person and I was first amazed by it and I was talking with her for over 30 minutes without even knowing her at all. I just got worried about she'd think of me as being like every other guy, acting like I care and be with another girl 10 minutes later..

I'll just wait 3 or 4 days before I call her up and ask if she's interested to have lunch with me.



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