"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Good one liners for the check out girl? Need some help.

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As I've said before, in another thread, my day game has almost gotten as bad as my golf game....almost. I'm slowly reading the SS Bible and reading these forums in hopes I'll get back on track again.

Anyway, the most frustrating thing for me is my missed opportunities, not even giving it a shot. I feel one of the easiest ways to get your day game going is to practice on girls that have to talk to you. You know who they are: waitresses, girls at the cash register, receptionists, etc.

I'm sure this has been covered a few times but I guess a refresher course can't really hurt. I read some repsonses to "Can i help you with anything"? Anyone have some good one liners for the simple: "How are you today?"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sweet, thanks for the advice!

Thought I would have gotten a few responses at least. lol
 

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Well, thats because it doesnt matter what you say its how you say it.

Also it takes more than one sentence to vibe with a girl (or anyone), you just have to go with the flow.



EDIT- hit my post count today, huzzah!

well not sure what the hurry is but you can talk about anything really. Try an observation or neg I guess.

observation
Good, btw thats an interesting hair style/dress/shoes where did you get it?

neg
Good, btw nice hair style/dress/shoes my mom has one just like it.


Its useful to throw the conversation back at her but with more context than before to get things flowing. I think the observation would be better, the neg ive come up with feels a bit forced without more context.
 

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DragonBlood said:
Well, thats because it doesnt matter what you say its how you say it.

Also it takes more than one sentence to vibe with a girl (or anyone), you just have to go with the flow.
Agreed.


I'm just looking for some openers to the robotic "Hi, how are you?" Rather than a "good, how are you?"
 
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