"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just wondering how much slack you give in a situation to keep control.

Baby girl calls me up and wants to go out but she wouldn't set up a time later that night. She said she'll call me when she's ready. I said 'ummm that sucks, so lets set a time because I don't like sitting around."

She acts retarded and I say whatever, give me a call. Right after that I purposly left my phone in my car and came upstiars to lift and mess around on the computer.

Sucks turning down such a beautiful girl but...

She'll learn my time is valuable.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hmm, then again.

Just grabbed my phone after not talking to her for a few hours and she had left like 8 messages.

I think she learned her lesson so I told her I went surfing and stopped by a buddy's house because I didn't feel like sitting around.

That way she knows and I still go on the date.
 
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yea but do you really need to ask if it was good or not? based on dj principles you should know if it was good or not
 
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yeah I like where you went with that but remember to frame these situation with exact wording little semantic differences like death tax and estate tax make a big difference in peoples' cognitive interpretations. So next time this comes say "look I got a lot going on in my life [u always should btw] and I dont' slow down for someone who is not dependable...ever" of course personalize it...DeAngelo recommends laying down the law up front "Two things I don't put up with are people who won't respect my time or my property, get it"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by PeoplesChamp
Two things I don't put up with are people who won't respect my time or my property, get it"
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That would be kind of hard to throw out there without sounding too harsh.

This girl isn't worth it anyway she's on a break from her ex and I'm moving outta town. Later guys I'll check back on the board in a week- off to New Orleans! Time to get laid.
 
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I've always felt it best to SHOW people how you are instead of TELLING them.

Leaving your phone in the car and letting her leave 8 messages is fine. You don't need to TELL her all that corny "my time is a valuable commodity" crap. If you ACT that way she'll get the picture.
 
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