good move?

[drf408]

A girl i posted on here about has come through and it has been going good for the past few dates was out with her last night but i fear i may be pushing myself to the friend zone, the first couple dates were hot and heavy but last she invited me out with her friends ( a good sign i thought) very touchy feely..we went back to her place after for a glass of wine and to watch a movie she wanted me to see, she quickly fell asleep as did i (we were wiped and thw wine kill us) i think this was fine but come morning when i left i kind of dodged her kiss (unintentionally) and ended up just giving her a pec on the cheek. She did ask me to stop by and say hi to her at her work since i was close bye. She drove me back to my car..and i went to give her a kiss bye and she gave me her cheek...she seemed to light up though when she saw me. Shes working tonight till 11, about a 2 miles away from where I live so i was going to leave her a message to come by after work for a glass of wine..good move??

 

[skEwb]

hmm

A girl i posted on here about has come through and it has been going good for the past few dates was out with her last night but i fear i may be pushing myself to the friend zone, the first couple dates were hot and heavy but last she invited me out with her friends ( a good sign i thought) very touchy feely..we went back to her place after for a glass of wine and to watch a movie she wanted me to see, she quickly fell asleep as did i (we were wiped and thw wine kill us) i think this was fine but come morning when i left i kind of dodged her kiss (unintentionally) and ended up just giving her a pec on the cheek. She did ask me to stop by and say hi to her at her work since i was close bye. She drove me back to my car..and i went to give her a kiss bye and she gave me her cheek...she seemed to light up though when she saw me. Shes working tonight till 11, about a 2 miles away from where I live so i was going to leave her a message to come by after work for a glass of wine..good move??

I'll take a stab at it. Maybe she thought since your accidental non lip to lip kiss went the way it did she'd do the same back. Maybe she's confused too and you need to make it clear without words that you want lip to lip. Go for the lips and see how she reacts.

 

[chinwaggler]

You seem to be seeing her non-stop, maybe have a few days off, do something else.. (which you should be doing).

But if SHE asked YOU to pop by and say hi, then she's obviously interested. I think you're doing fine, but don't priorotise her.

 

[drf408]

Actually last night was the first time I've seen her since the last Friday date? Still think its better to lay off? I like her and i want the right balance of being interested yet not pushing anything..I will be tired for sure by the time she came over if she were to say yes..as much as I like her I'd really have to rally (fair amount of drinking last night)..Maybe I should just touch base with her tomorrow for plans later in the week?

 

[drf408]

I decided to pass on the invite over for wine which i am about 90% sure she wouldve but given the fact that ive got no game because my hangover from last night is really kicking in now i feel its better to live to fight another day. I would have to think that something like this morning wouldnt have set me back..she has been super affectionate..ill just see whats up tomorrow.