Good men are the real unicorns

[jhonny9546]

User @marmel75 actually wrote something majestic a bit ago.
This words haven't received the spot they deserve.

Women like men who are strong, who lead and who aren't afraid to ruffle feathers when they need to. Men who demand respect or walk away from those who don't give it to them. Men who put themselves first and who are comfortable in their own skin. Men who have drive and ambition and eant to make something of themselves. Men who have passions. They like good guys with these attributes MORE than @ssholes with these attributes, there just happen to be fewer good guys than @ssholes out there. Good guys are the male version of the unicorn...when a woman finds one she will never let them go(if she can help it).

The excuses guys come up with are because its easier to make these excuses than to work on yourself and these attributes.

And for the guys who claim "I am all these things but it still isn't working", its not YOUR opinion of whether you have these attributes that matter its the woman's opinion. Regardless of what YOU think you are outwardly portraying, THEY think you aren't. Your opinion doesn't count in this. You DO NOT express these traits to other people which is why they don't think you have them.

Women like men who are strong, who lead, and who aren't afraid to ruffle feathers when they need to.
(This already makes it clear why passive-aggressive, angry men will have an advantage.
Many women mistake angriness and beign loud with "leadership")

Men who demand respect or walk away from those who don't give it to them.
(Both the good and bad guy can do this, but they'll do in different ways: non violent comunication and passive aggressive angriness.)

Men who put themselves first.
(It sounds narcissistic and passive-aggressive men. Mature men, have learnt, to put themselves first but having situational/relationsip compromises)

Men who are comfortable in their own skin.
(There are many "good" guys who have this quality.)

Men who have drive and ambition and the desire to make something of themselves.
Men who have passions.
(Maybe it plays into the good guys' favor here, as many "bad" guys will be drug addicts, stealing, or smoking weed on their couch as a hobby.)


There just happen to be fewer good guys than @ssholes out there.
(Can we say that instead there will be more "damaged" women attracted to bad guys than "healthy" women attracted to good guys?)


And for the guys who claim "I am all these things but it still isn't working", regardless of what YOU think you are outwardly portraying, THEY think you aren't. You DO NOT express these traits to other people which is why they don't think you have them.
("You can't negotiate desire", simply if you have all those attributes and show them to 10 girls, always remember that not all 10 will see them, but maybe only 1 or 2, will be really interested.)