"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good lord I want a cigarette!

Warrior74

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It's a good thing its raining and my car is in the shop. I'm not gonna walk that far in the rain for one. But dammit its almost worth it. Withdrawl sucks!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ken785

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Warrior74 said:
It's a good thing its raining and my car is in the shop. I'm not gonna walk that far in the rain for one. But dammit its almost worth it. Withdrawl sucks!
Where are you from? Cuz its really hot and sunny here in California. It was like 95 degrees today!

...and i also started smoking again..at least a cigarette or two a day now :( hopefully i dont start up my habit again. Before this, its been a year since a quit...but then i just had one day where i had one...and now its like here we go again....

Im just so bored i just have to have one! I need to grab the balss to go sarging again so i wont be so bored at home all day.
 

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What worked for me to quit was to buy a pack of the most revolting, disgusting cigarettes you can find - whatever makes you gag the most, but still has nicotine. I bought a pack of menthol filtered mini-cigars.

Then everything takes care of itself. Go and smoke when you want one, and soon your subconscious mind will stop wanting nicotine, because it is always such an unpleasant experience.
 

War Against Betaism

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I've had a 2 month period where I didn't smoke, then I got introduced to 27's. omg those are so addictive, it's always been at least a minimum of 3 a day now.
 
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