"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Good lord I want a cigarette!
- Thread starter Warrior74
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
Where are you from? Cuz its really hot and sunny here in California. It was like 95 degrees today!Warrior74 said:
...and i also started smoking again..at least a cigarette or two a day now
hopefully i dont start up my habit again. Before this, its been a year since a quit...but then i just had one day where i had one...and now its like here we go again....Im just so bored i just have to have one! I need to grab the balss to go sarging again so i wont be so bored at home all day.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Then everything takes care of itself. Go and smoke when you want one, and soon your subconscious mind will stop wanting nicotine, because it is always such an unpleasant experience.