"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good looks = no fashion mistakes?

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Today I was out with a group of girls (just friends) and some guy was wearing an orange shirt with army fatigue shorts, it really looked bad. Now granted he was good looking and the girls said "He can get away with wearing that".

It seems like if you're good looking people think whatever you wear looks good. Yet if an ugly guy was wearing it he'd look like an idiot. Why is this?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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spaceman2001 said:
Today I was out with a group of girls (just friends) and some guy was wearing an orange shirt with army fatigue shorts, it really looked bad. Now granted he was good looking and the girls said "He can get away with wearing that".

It seems like if you're good looking people think whatever you wear looks good. Yet if an ugly guy was wearing it he'd look like an idiot. Why is this?
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Because they are too busy noticing the hot guy, clothes are a secondary thought. If an ugly guy is wearing that, the ugly blows right past them and the clothes become the primary thought.
 
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since when did american broads become fashion gods? aren't we talking about the same group that likes to wear flip-flops all the freaking time? american broads still remind me of linebackers (low to the ground and really wide).
 
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elmo said:
since when did american broads become fashion gods? aren't we talking about the same group that likes to wear flip-flops all the freaking time? american broads still remind me of linebackers (low to the ground and really wide).
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in rich/metro areas american girls can be hot and dress really nice...

but yeah, in most smaller cities and ****ty burbs they definitely lack and kind of class/fashion sense.

but hey, it pretty much applies to american guys as well.
 
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spaceman2001 said:
Today I was out with a group of girls (just friends) and some guy was wearing an orange shirt with army fatigue shorts, it really looked bad. Now granted he was good looking and the girls said "He can get away with wearing that".

It seems like if you're good looking people think whatever you wear looks good. Yet if an ugly guy was wearing it he'd look like an idiot. Why is this?
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Why do you think all the clothing companies in the world pay big money to have good looking people modeling for their cloths?
Because they look good, as long as the cloths are fit, no matter what they wear, they look good.
And they make us believe that it's because of what they are wearing. And we will pay big money to buy their cloths that are (most of the time) after all quite "common".
Have you guys ever had things like a Ralph Lauren polo (basically a simple polo with a guy riding a horse stamp on it) or a Yves Saint Laurent shirt (basically a nice but simple shirt with the famous "YSL" logo on it) or something similar from other famous brands? It's more about brand image than any intrinsic value.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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its the way you carry your clothes. its the man who makes the clothes. every don juan should know that by now. early on, we are given a set of rules. then we are actually taught to break them. fashion is no exception.
 
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this is an interesting topic of discussion.
But i think Le Parisien may be making a good point...who knows it could be true.

fashion is very opinionated anyway, something can look great one day and the next day it's garbage.
 
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