"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Even New England Patriots owner, Robert Kraft, worth $6,000,000,000 US, has to pay for sex.

Too bad he didn’t know about Sosuave, we could have told him only betas buck. Alphas work out, dress well, have the abundance mentality, don’t take crap, and get laid constantly.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ar...o-counts-soliciting-prostitution-Florida.html
Paying someone a market rate for services does not mean they have power over you. Is your barber more powerful than you because you pay him for a haircut? It’s the fascist state and its lackeys that have more power than billionaires.
 

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Paying someone a market rate for services does not mean they have power over you. Is your barber more powerful than you because you pay him for a haircut? It’s the fascist state and its lackeys that have more power than billionaires.
If your barber cuts your hair like as if you had walked from a fashion show, then damn yes he has power over you. First impression is last.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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He's not a "beta male" He's worth $6 billion who can do whatever he wants in life.
How much money someone has doesn't have anything to do with alpha or beta

Alpha/beta are are personality based and how one behaves, there's guys who are broke and spend most of there lives incarcerated(I use to be one) and there more alpha than successful guys, I know guys with lots of money who are pvssys and the most submissive and passive men you will ever meet.
 

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Fakes news.

He was married for 40 years to the same woman, she died of cancer.

Then he dated and got a kid with a women who was 30 years younger than him

He payed for a prostitute ?

When you busy building a billionnaire empire, you don't have time to date.. .so you pay for hookers
 

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Kraft is to old to be running game he runs a nearly billion dollar football team that cheats. He has enough on his plate
 

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How much money someone has doesn't have anything to do with alpha or beta

Alpha/beta are are personality based and how one behaves, there's guys who are broke and spend most of there lives incarcerated(I use to be one) and there more alpha than successful guys, I know guys with lots of money who are pvssys and the most submissive and passive men you will ever meet.
LOL, yeah, rationalizing failing as winning. That's what losers do.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Like I said, money has nothing to do with someone's personality
That depends, a lot of people with money and that are financially successful are generally intelligent, highly industrious individuals who make sound decisions. Granted there are exceptions, think most celebrities and professional athletes, but by and large there are certain characteristics and traits associated with wealthier/successful people that the average poor person does not have.
 

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No excusing beta males
Well, he's actually 77 years old, but I guess we're rounding up. But is anyone here actually going to claim that an 80 year old guy is going to be physically attractive to an attractive woman? Are you really going to shame an 80 year old guy for not being "alpha" enough? I know there are guys in their 50s who bang girls in their 20s, and I've even heard of guys in their 60s doing the same. You don't hear about much after that.

Sure, there are guys like Hugh Hefner who are in their 80s and marry a young girl, but I think we all know what the real attraction is there. I just don't think a guy that age is going to be attracting women with their raw, physical, sexuality. Let's be real here.

That said, the guy's a billionaire, he has the money, he had the urge, are you really going to condemn the guy for maybe trying to remember what it feels like? It's probably a hollow feeling, because he knows he's paying for it, but still, what are his real choices?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have met a lot of older guys like 50+ who are alpha in all other ways but still have a mega beta mindset towards women. They have money, good bodies, success, etc. but if you even talk bad about any female you are gonna get the old fart really pizzed off, maybe even clocked in the face.
 

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I have met a lot of older guys like 50+ who are alpha in all other ways but still have a mega beta mindset towards women.
There's a big difference between a guy in his 50s, and a guy who is 80 though, don't you think? I don't see any 80 year old guys out there slaying, unless it's because he's using his wallet, or has some sort of fame.

Another thing about older guys: They grew up in a different era, when women were more submissive to men, and may actually have seen females as the weaker sex, and who needed protection. I don't think it's fair to compare their attitudes with a young guy growing up in a more feminized world.
 

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I have met a lot of older guys like 50+ who are alpha in all other ways but still have a mega beta mindset towards women. They have money, good bodies, success, etc. but if you even talk bad about any female you are gonna get the old fart really pizzed off, maybe even clocked in the face.
Super simps
 

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I have met a lot of older guys like 50+ who are alpha in all other ways but still have a mega beta mindset towards women. They have money, good bodies, success, etc. but if you even talk bad about any female you are gonna get the old fart really pizzed off, maybe even clocked in the face.
Those men are also from a different generation and lived in a time where women behaved respectfully instead of what they are like today.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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