"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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leeman67

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The gym I go to has about 3-4 personal trainers. The one I met when I first signed up was very flirtatious. Just curious. Is it comon for a trainer to give out their personal cell phone number? inquiring minds want to know....LOL
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mjfan12

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I wouldnt look too deep into that. I had many people give me their "personal" numbers. its just to suck up to you. they obviously get commison on the more people they sign up. They'd do whatever it takes.
 

SparkleMotion

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Yeah, I would say she may have given it out to make sure you joined the gym.

But **** it, try giving the number a ring.
 
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