"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good Looking Loser: The 4 Most Frequent Rejections You Will See

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Forget the “PUA” mental contortion nonsense. Watch this Good Looking Loser video and you’ll see Chris getting rejected in real life situations. Nothing over the top. Just normal approaches. Sometimes chicks just aren’t available for whatever reason or just not interested. True story.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gzgTgS6-BEk


GLL: Inviting Girls to a Party.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KR0L63LyY8c


GLL: How to Get a Date the Same Night (Basic Guy Game)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=re_LP1Nd4Tw
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BeDJ

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HumbleNinja said:
Sometimes chicks just aren’t available for whatever reason or just not interested. True story.
No sh!t, a chick is going to reject you in the first 10 seconds.

I watched the first approach he did in the video you linked. He never had a gameplan, he failed to navigate the conversation. His opening with the brownie was good, but he got shellshocked when the conversation was suddenly dying. That's when he threw out "How are yooUU today?" Notice how the flow of the conversation cut off. You CAN NOT do that. That's where a lot of new guys fail, where they have a conversation going and suddenly run out of things to talk about and then you ABRUPTLY skew the conversation into another dimension. He should have followed up with something relating to brownies -

Last time I was at the chocolate convention....
I had an enlightening brownie once, never again...
Being a connoisseur of baked goods....

You need to learn to navigate the conversation. His remarks are great, but his followup questions are overly aggressive or fvcking the 9th dimension. The conversation seems forced, you need to have one conversation relate to the next to the next. Too many incoherency. Then he got too personal.

That chick was an HB6 at best in my opinion.
 

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BeDJ said:
No sh!t, a chick is going to reject you in the first 10 seconds.

I watched the first approach he did in the video you linked. He never had a gameplan, he failed to navigate the conversation. His opening with the brownie was good, but he got shellshocked when the conversation was suddenly dying. That's when he threw out "How are yooUU today?" Notice how the flow of the conversation cut off. You CAN NOT do that. That's where a lot of new guys fail, where they have a conversation going and suddenly run out of things to talk about and then you ABRUPTLY skew the conversation into another dimension. He should have followed up with something relating to brownies -

Last time I was at the chocolate convention....
I had an enlightening brownie once, never again...
Being a connoisseur of baked goods....

You need to learn to navigate the conversation. His remarks are great, but his followup questions are overly aggressive or fvcking the 9th dimension. The conversation seems forced, you need to have one conversation relate to the next to the next. Too many incoherency. Then he got too personal.

That chick was an HB6 at best in my opinion.

The "rejection" video he made was I think due to a lot of average dudes saying they couldn't do the approaches he normally does or for people who think what he does is fake.

So he approached as best as a normal dude would with no astounding looking chicks as most dudes have approach anxiety.

I haven't spoken to Chris in a long time but on here and don't know him personally but when I saw he was doing similar cht on POF a while back to what I was doing with it I watched a few of his vids and thought: "this dude reminds me of dudes I grew up with and knows what he's doing."

GLL would have to answer your critiques BeDJ but from watching it and the types of chicks he approached I think it's due to showing how "average guys" approach and how conversation may normally go and here's examples of rejection so other dudes see anyone gets rejected at times.

It's much better for dudes to see Chris do approaches live just for dudes to see live rejections and interactions rather than just talk about it on here.

If he visits SS again I'm sure he'll see the thread and explain or answer you why he did what he did etc.
 

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I have to agree with BeDJ. I watched a few of his videos, even the ones where he got numbers and he seems to stall quite often. Part of that is the context. When you randomly approach somebody, rather than being in an environment where you both naturally can relate, there may be a connection gap that you have to close by a hit-or-miss method.

All in all, I personally wouldn't follow this guy's game. It's just not my style. Seems very pushy and his standards seem pretty low.
 
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