thelonewolflegend
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I live in a suburban town at the moment house in suburbs which is half hour from downtown so what am i supposed to do exactly how could i still get them to come home?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
thelonewolflegend
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Why does it matter? What if u live half hour from city
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Then you're sh*t outta luck!thelonewolflegend said:
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Point is why couldnt they come over whats the big deal? Just drive my house
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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while not an absolute requirement, this is very relevant if you're going for the quick lay or ONS. Especially girls you meet during night game. A 20 minute car ride or 40 minute walk gives far too much time for the sexual tension to dissipate and for her to start thinking "maybe this isn't such a good idea".
If you're running standard game...meeting up for a day 2 then day 3, it honestly shouldn't make too much of a difference. It helps to have your own place (not your parents' house) and a place that is relatively nice and stylish to bring her back to eventually.
If you're not going for a ONS then you're likely going to: 1) meet her/ pull her number, 2) meet up for coffee or other initial "date" thingy, and 3) push for the lay either at her place or yours (or if you two are ramping things up quickly, in a more public place)
If you're running standard game...meeting up for a day 2 then day 3, it honestly shouldn't make too much of a difference. It helps to have your own place (not your parents' house) and a place that is relatively nice and stylish to bring her back to eventually.
If you're not going for a ONS then you're likely going to: 1) meet her/ pull her number, 2) meet up for coffee or other initial "date" thingy, and 3) push for the lay either at her place or yours (or if you two are ramping things up quickly, in a more public place)
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Im just not sure why it matters fully how can she think not good idea if goin my house if shes down?
Make arrangements to go to her place if it is closer. If she is DTF get a motel near by her or make her come to you so you can go to your place. This should not be so hard like you are making it to be. Not every girl is going to be in walking distance to you. Improvise and make it work to your advantage whereever you are.