Good looking guys of sosuave: men and women hate you..

[jhonny9546]

You've noticed that if you're more attractive than average, you get hated by other men, but here's the kicker: women will hate you too.

It's like women want to be with a good-looking guy, but if you're better looking than them, that's a problem.

Also, if they send you ioi and you miss them, its like they feel rejected.

 

[BaronOfHair]

It's like women want to be with a good-looking guy, but if you're better looking than them, that's a problem

If you're more "pretty" than handsome... Yeah, that's going to be a problem long term. For starters:

-Pretty boys register as effeminate, and very few women have any desire to pair up with a fella more girly than she is

-Pretty boy-ish looks tend to age poorly Reference Leonardo DiCaprio, Devon Sawa, the entire surviving primary male cast of Dawson's Creek for visual evidence... Hell, John Wesley Shipp, who played Dawson's DAD back in The 90s, has held up much better than Kerr Smith and Josh Jackson

 

[BaronOfHair]

thats not what the thread is about at all

OP remarked: "It's like women want to be with a good-looking guy, but if you're better looking than them, that's a problem"

And I responded... This is entirely dependent upon the type of GLG you are. This isn't just true in dating and mating either https://www.npr.org/2015/04/20/4009...-be-at-a-disadvantage-when-it-comes-to-hiring

 

[GoodMan32]

This one married man who used to live in my building (and looks a lot worse than me) would act insecure any time the wife so much as talked to me

As for my current girlfriend, I'm personally incredibly attracted to her, yet most would likely say her looks are worse than mine. She was somewhat self-conscious about the perceived looks gap at first

I've had bad luck with those with worse looks than me before (either getting turned down right off the bat or having her quickly lose interest). It's been suggested to me (by 3rd parties) they might have been self-conscious about the looks gap

 

[jhonny9546]

GLG

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would act insecure any time the wife so much as talked to me

That is my life history ahahha.
Everytime bro.. But I always wonder what the wife really think about him acting like that.

 

[BaronOfHair]

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GLG is an acronym for "good looking guy"

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Why do you care is the bigger question?

It has no relevancy. Their opinions should carry zero weight with you.

I've never understood why so many people give two sh!ts about what random people think of them.

Consequently, if you are struggling getting laid, this is probably one of the bigger reasons.

 

[jhonny9546]

I've never understood

Because You've never experienced that, which is good for you mate