Good looking guys do less work

[El MonoLoco]

Hey don't forget about being too good looking then you just make girls nervous and they won't give you any good signals because they are too nervous to talk to you....Makes them come across as uninterested even if they are.....


I know it happens all the time......


But life is all about balance....if you lack in one thing you need to compensate with another. Hey if your ugly...screw it be a comedian or something.....There are always ways to get around things to maintain balance.

 

[L777]

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
I made a thread about this already.Apparnetly the ugly guys (most of the board) say different...but of course they would say no to this since they aren't attractive at all to begin with.

Grow up.

All you morons theorising about your attraction theories and the all that s.hite.

Just get out there and do it.
Like I do.

 

[reyalp]

Good point, L777


Like I used to tell my buddies who were going off to college to get their 4yr degree and just assuming they could get a job afterwards:

Nothing is a substitute for real world experience.

I don't care how much training you have, how much you've learned, practiced, watched, analyzed, it doesn't matter.
It doesn't mean squat outside of the classroom, until you get out there and put it to use.

 

[uzio]

oh ffs.

You guys mix two things - looks and appearance.

Looks - natural beauty like facial features. This is mostly irrelevant.

Make no mistake - girls like guys that are bautiful (beauty is liked - always) - but it DOES NOT create sexual attraction.

Appearance - heirin lies the answer. This includes visible health (clear skin, not obese, posture etc) and isnignia of status (quality of clothes and accesories, used cosmetics etc).

Because you see - women are attracted to _power_. THis may be physical power (brawn, height, size), economical power (money, good job etc) or soceital power (game, character, status etc). The higher _power_ you present by your appearance - the more attractive you are.

Only when two guys present equal power, the looks part starts to have some importance.

And if you don't believe - answer me - who is more likely to get HB10 - dorky Bill Gates or ripped guy model next door?

BTW - I am 6'6", 210 lb with ~12% bodyfat, 130+ IQ and very regular, altho a bit beaten up, face. No girls approached me yet.

 

[\O/]

Originally posted by uzio


And if you don't believe - answer me - who is more likely to get HB10 - dorky Bill Gates or ripped guy model next door?

Ripped guy model next door...

 

[KnightRyder]

Originally posted by uzio
oh ffs.

And if you don't believe - answer me - who is more likely to get HB10 - dorky Bill Gates or ripped guy model next door?

BTW - I am 6'6", 210 lb with ~12% bodyfat, 130+ IQ and very regular, altho a bit beaten up, face. No girls approached me yet.

for a guy claiming 130 IQ , would have hoped for a better comparison question.

THe answer is BOTH.

Both. She's have a ONS with the ripped guy next door, AND put a collar on Bill Gates and call him her hubby.

 

[uzio]

You know - when we talk about appearance - we talk about appearance. Other variables are equal.

That is - assume both buys are equally alpha (or beta). This is not the focus here. Also the guys are equally avalible to the babe in question.

And the deal is, that the HB10 will go for Bill because he ammased so much power on his side, that no amount of physical beauty can overcome it.

Frankly - if it wasn't for our culture, someone with power level of Bill Gates could easily hold several women at the same time.

 

[\O/]

Originally posted by uzio

And the deal is, that the HB10 will go for Bill because he ammased so much power on his side, that no amount of physical beauty can overcome it.

Frankly - if it wasn't for our culture, someone with power level of Bill Gates could easily hold several women at the same time.

A woman should want to be with you for who you are and not what you have. Women are materialistic and would probably choose Bill Gates as their hubby, but that doesn't change the fact that they would rather be with the ripped model guy. I would be the guy they would PREFER being with and not the guy they choose because of what comes with the package.

And even though Bill Gates is much more powerful than say Donald Trump, I bet you almost all women would choose Trump because he carries himself with a confidence that is out of this world.

 

[uzio]

Originally posted by \O/
A woman should want to be with you for who you are and not what you have.

Reality check.

When searching for a partner we seek certain values - looking for a mate who embodies most of them.

We seek the whole package, but usually (reject fringe examples like gay people etc) we put emphasis on certain values. For guys it is physical beauty, for women, overall power, also both sexes seek healthy partner.

If a male radiates power and health, it does not matter that his looks is average at best.

Its just like two women - if both of them are equally hot, then most men would not give a crap whoch one of them is rich. Frankly - when I approach a gal her material status does even cross my mind. Sure - it would't hurt if she was rich, but I don't give a damn if she is not.

Now this is attraction (eg - what is the focus of this topic). Now in LTRs you also need to fulfill the rest of the needs of your partner. If you succed - you have a healthy LTR. If not, then either you have unhealthy LTR or the lass simply goes away. (all this assuming, that she also fulfills your requirements).

Women are materialistic and would probably choose Bill Gates as their hubby, but that doesn't change the fact that they would rather be with the ripped model guy. I would be the guy they would PREFER being with and not the guy they choose because of what comes with the package.

What I am trying to tell you, that women(and men btw) always stay with the mate that ATM fulfills most of their requirements.

Believe me - if being ripped was all the guy had to offer, then he would be in close relations to his hand, not to a hot gal. Now if he also had tight game (read: societal power) then some gals would go for him. Some would not.

And even though Bill Gates is much more powerful than say Donald Trump, I bet you almost all women would choose Trump because he carries himself with a confidence that is out of this world.

First of all - at the money levels of both Trump or Gates the actual _sum_ does not matter. They are both filthy rich, so their economical power is about the same. Any difference will come out of their other attributes.

Power does not equal money. Power, as I said, is composed of many variables. There are women out there who genuinely LOVE _big_ _brawny_ even _brutal_ men, despite living with him in a mobile home.

Note however - that dorky (no societal power), skinny (weak) and poor geeks usually live alone, or with fat girls.