"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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spaceman2001

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Sup guys? I know I'm good looking, I'm told this all the time by family and friends, but lately the "are you gay" jokes are starting to go around. All my friends are in relationships except me. I just don't know any girls really. I'm not in college and I work pretty much with all guys, and I'm not 21 so I can't go to the bars. Am I screwed? People wondering if I'm gay is kinda bothering me. I get looks from girls all the time but I'm not about to blindly go up to them and look like an idiot.

Any advice?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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svarog

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go up to them and look like an idiot!
eventually you'll stop looking like one
 

Brummeren

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1. Read the bible.
2. Go blindly up to them and look like an idiot.
3. Find out why you looked like an idiot, try to improve.
4. repeat steps 2-3 when needed.
 

Morphiex

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how the hell can you expect personal advice when u only give us a few details , im getting so tired of this on this site, everyones coming here and go "my mom thinks im pretty but i cant get no girls ,WHY???!?!" and ceep crying themself to sleep..... ,
if you want any personal help then give us as much personal information as u can possibly give
clothes, work, sports,interests,apeearance,your surroundings, friends ect...ect....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Brummeren

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I'm no expert, but it would seem that you suffer from low self-esteem?
If so, then why not try bootcamp? It helps alot.

You could also try to get your friends to introduce you to girls. That, or start doing something where you meet alot of girls. I recommend volunteering.
 

El MonoLoco

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Wanye from Wayne's World gave Garth some good advice that should work with all your next encounters with women...


Just go up and talk to them.....


They don't bite unless you ask them too

:crackup:
 

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the fact is that its a self esteem issue. if you have self esteem you arent worrried about looking like an idiot because you know your worth. approach, its most of the time a good experience even if they arent intersted in you.
 

john_1234

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i give a lot of respect to fella's who have the balls to actually post their pix on a site like this. anyway, if people start ****ing w/ you w/ the gay jokes. don't let it bother you. say, "yeah i am gay." big ****ing deal if people think you are even if you're straight
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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El MonoLoco

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Ok I know yall are just dying to see my face...yea right.....

Check out my myspace page you can find me under the same name....

just look for the AK-47



peace.....


And I hate to say thing...but dude totally looks gay......


:crackup:


Now give me some respect John......ha ha ha
 

So Many Ways

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spaceman2001 said:
I get looks from girls all the time but I'm not about to blindly go up to them and look like an idiot.
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Why not go up to girls that are looking at you? That's an obvious buy signal. Some guys rarely get these. Take advantage of that.
 

OfficeSpace

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This guy is an AW.. I remember seing that pic a while back about him bragging how he can get girls (I believe that thread was even deleted), now he's coming on here saying he doesn't know any..

Common guys, if he honestly wanted help he'd read the DJ bible and stop wh0ring for attention like he did before!
 
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