Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

good looking and dont know any girls

spaceman2001

Banned
Joined
Mar 22, 2006
Messages
65
Reaction score
1
Sup guys? I know I'm good looking, I'm told this all the time by family and friends, but lately the "are you gay" jokes are starting to go around. All my friends are in relationships except me. I just don't know any girls really. I'm not in college and I work pretty much with all guys, and I'm not 21 so I can't go to the bars. Am I screwed? People wondering if I'm gay is kinda bothering me. I get looks from girls all the time but I'm not about to blindly go up to them and look like an idiot.

Any advice?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

svarog

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2006
Messages
38
Reaction score
0
go up to them and look like an idiot!
eventually you'll stop looking like one
 

Brummeren

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2006
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
1. Read the bible.
2. Go blindly up to them and look like an idiot.
3. Find out why you looked like an idiot, try to improve.
4. repeat steps 2-3 when needed.
 

Morphiex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2005
Messages
662
Reaction score
1
how the hell can you expect personal advice when u only give us a few details , im getting so tired of this on this site, everyones coming here and go "my mom thinks im pretty but i cant get no girls ,WHY???!?!" and ceep crying themself to sleep..... ,
if you want any personal help then give us as much personal information as u can possibly give
clothes, work, sports,interests,apeearance,your surroundings, friends ect...ect....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Brummeren

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2006
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
I'm no expert, but it would seem that you suffer from low self-esteem?
If so, then why not try bootcamp? It helps alot.

You could also try to get your friends to introduce you to girls. That, or start doing something where you meet alot of girls. I recommend volunteering.
 

El MonoLoco

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 12, 2001
Messages
512
Reaction score
0
Age
46
Location
Chico, Ca, USA
Wanye from Wayne's World gave Garth some good advice that should work with all your next encounters with women...


Just go up and talk to them.....


They don't bite unless you ask them too

:crackup:
 

mountain

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 23, 2006
Messages
146
Reaction score
1
the fact is that its a self esteem issue. if you have self esteem you arent worrried about looking like an idiot because you know your worth. approach, its most of the time a good experience even if they arent intersted in you.
 

john_1234

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 5, 2005
Messages
395
Reaction score
5
i give a lot of respect to fella's who have the balls to actually post their pix on a site like this. anyway, if people start ****ing w/ you w/ the gay jokes. don't let it bother you. say, "yeah i am gay." big ****ing deal if people think you are even if you're straight
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

El MonoLoco

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 12, 2001
Messages
512
Reaction score
0
Age
46
Location
Chico, Ca, USA
Ok I know yall are just dying to see my face...yea right.....

Check out my myspace page you can find me under the same name....

just look for the AK-47



peace.....


And I hate to say thing...but dude totally looks gay......


:crackup:


Now give me some respect John......ha ha ha
 

So Many Ways

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2004
Messages
791
Reaction score
2
Location
www.blackmenvent.com
spaceman2001 said:
I get looks from girls all the time but I'm not about to blindly go up to them and look like an idiot.
QUOTE]

Why not go up to girls that are looking at you? That's an obvious buy signal. Some guys rarely get these. Take advantage of that.
 

OfficeSpace

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 8, 2006
Messages
513
Reaction score
3
Location
Dallas, Texas
This guy is an AW.. I remember seing that pic a while back about him bragging how he can get girls (I believe that thread was even deleted), now he's coming on here saying he doesn't know any..

Common guys, if he honestly wanted help he'd read the DJ bible and stop wh0ring for attention like he did before!
 
Top