"Good guy" and "Nice Guy" is there a difference?

[deeman]

So if you are chillin with a girl and get on the topic of guys and ways you can tell duds from quality men, and then the girls says "your a good guy" (using you as an example) ie, sincere, honest, blah blah.

Is this a good thing? or is that the equivalent of the dreaded "your a nice guy" or "hes a nice guy".

If a chick says "your a good guy" is this indeed, good.......
discuss

 

[seloifter]

*shrug*
it's not really a nice guy, but it's not really a DJ either....

it certainly means she likes you..... but probably just as good company. After all, young girls aren't attracted to what they "consider good", are they?

 

[sAxyguy83]

It all depends on the girl. There are some rare girls out there that LIKE the "nice guy", and not as their doormat. These girls are a great find, since this preference means that they value (and thus quite likely posess) some very good qualities. Don't worry too much about stereotypes - there are all sorts of different girls out there, and what really matters is the type of girl you want.

 

[deeman]

well, in the context, we were talking about past relationships and she proceeded to tell me about a jerk BF she once had, and that she has had her share of jerks in the past. (shes 26)

So I then asked her "so how can she tell if a guy is not a jerk". To which she followed through with useful info of character traites and in conclusion, she used me as an example of a "good guy" - not too forward, intellegent, not obnoxious. I hope this aint the cursed "Nice guy" title?

I guess this is a good thing

I still cant read her though, I guess there is interest but I am not sure how much. Any tips on how to escalate things?

 

[BGD]

'Good' is an ok title but don't be a wimp. If you have a opening for KINO or to kiss then do it. She could be looking at you like a knight in shining armor.

Remember you may be a good guy but you are still a MAN (I think) and she is a woman.

If you wait to long or show that your to much of a wuss then you will be turned into nice guy or you'll be LJBF'd.