"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Good" girls

LMFAO

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How do you propose on gaming the so called good girls?

I've been out with some girls for example from JDate and they come from a culture of not sleeping around and not even kissing so easily (at least that's what some portray, a couple of others jumped straight to sex). The girl I had three dates with wouldn't have sex, and best I got was a handjob, and said to be "you're going to be disappointed" as she thinks I expect more, yet she keeps texting me and asking me to come to her house Saturday night and kisses my face off. Another girl I went out with last night wouldn't hold my hand for more than about 20 seconds, nor kiss at the end of the night "I'm a good girl". F*ck off. Some of them are just rich princesses living off daddy while others want to be really sure of a guy before commuting to open their legs.

Is it worth the hassle of putting up with this s**t and wait a month or more for sex for a possible LTR?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jurry

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Taking your time and letting a girl get to know you/have some confidence that she isnt going to be pumped and dumped is a "hassle"?

Relax man. Theres more to life than sex.
 
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