"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok in my time in the dating realm i've noticed a trend. First off I'm basing this in the age range of 25-30 since most of my experience comes in then, so the women I am speaking of are in the same range. Focused on building my career prior to that. Had dating experience, just immature BS. So the trend I've been noticing lately that is when I find a good independent woman (Ie 2-3 sexual partners, works for herself, educated, good family life) they seem to be out of their minds. Like their **** doesn't stink, whatever. Now on the opposite end of the spectrum when I date a promiscuous woman (10+ partners, likes to drink and party, etc.) they seem to be relaxed and carefree. I don't have to deal with the insanity. Did anyone else ever notice this or is it just me. Can someone please explain this phenomenon. I never really use PUA but since this sit is based on men dating and dealing with women I figured it's a good place to ask.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Malcontent

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Yes, the party girl is fun until you develop feelings for her and try to maintain a relationship. Then you will be pulling your hair out. (Can't turn a hoe into a housewife.) But if she is just a fvck, and only a fvck, then, sure, they are better.
 

Starwolf

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yep, it gets worst if they are average looking or fat.. they will literally see themselves as special angels put on this earth by a god.
 
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