Ok I'll keep this short so matched a chick from tinder we went out had a good time she was feeling me up etc. Had a good time she even asked for another date and all of a sudden she went cold and haven't heard from her since. Any one else had this happen?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Good first date then ghost...
- Thread starter lacaca
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
GearsGod310
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Yea bro it happens. If she's a cute girl imagine how many other matches/options shes got... It was just your turn.
Also she could've been on a break with her bf or some ******* thats playing her and you were just fun for the mean time while she fixed things up with them.
Or she's probably just testing you, wondering when you'll hit her up begging for another date so she can waste your time and money.
It can be a couple of things. Don't worry about it, she's doing you a favor. You don't need b*tches like that in your life. Those are just simply to f**k. If she hits you up again inv her over your place for some drinks.
Also she could've been on a break with her bf or some ******* thats playing her and you were just fun for the mean time while she fixed things up with them.
Or she's probably just testing you, wondering when you'll hit her up begging for another date so she can waste your time and money.
It can be a couple of things. Don't worry about it, she's doing you a favor. You don't need b*tches like that in your life. Those are just simply to f**k. If she hits you up again inv her over your place for some drinks.
I was thinking the same thing, she could have been on a break and got back with her ex.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Western women are disgusting *** dumpsters.
In the words of the hbo special quoted by jeffy Allan, "you can't be half a gangster. Not anymore."
If not for the wall, epiphany phase, cratered SMV, reality check etc women would never change. Its not do much as they changed as it is, they cannot compete. At some point, the acknowledgement of her inability to compete with her self at 23 nor hawter baeeeees will make her seek out beta cuck male provider.
Pick your poison. Grow a pair. Smash everything rotten. Leave provider male Dating to incels and cuck phaghotree.
Your mistake was not going ass to mouth, ghosting her, and flyering her noods to my inbox.
Smash or next but not before trolling.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
backseatjuan
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Did you ask her to go back to your place? Did you kiss her? Did you hug her? I think your two sentences don't speak any volumes and keep us guessing, are you playing us?
DEEZEDBRAH
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Ask?
We got a comedian here fellas. Ask lulz
Real men don't ask.
I lead. She follows or next but, Not before trolling.
Asking is for cucks and betas.
Not doing it right kuz.
You tell her what she should be doing. Where/when.
Its 2019. 99% drink like dad. Cant cook like mom let alone turn on a stove.
She should be making sandwiches or chained to the bed post. Wait wut?
backseatjuan
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^Why not, I sometimes ask a girl if she wants to kiss me. Does that make me an afc or beta?
You don't ask, you just do it.
Real men don’t ask. They Order like a Nazi and if she gives any hint of resistance, Real men punch them in the face and then tie them up to the bed post and hit them some more. Then real men have sex with them while they are tied up. Then real men order them to cook breakfast. Then real men kick them out of the house and never call them again.
Then when they turn 24, real men drive over to their house and punch them in the face because they turned 24.
Ages 18-23. That’s where it’s at.
Then when they turn 24, real men drive over to their house and punch them in the face because they turned 24.
Ages 18-23. That’s where it’s at.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backseatjuan
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wtf you know about real men, are you a real man?