"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good financial books I should be reading?

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Hi guys I reviewed my goals for the next 10 years and one thing I want tk accomplish is to achieve financial freedom. I'm currently 18 and still studying, 2 years in national service and later on university. I plan to make money whilst I am still studying in the futurr to invest in assets later on in life. I finished reading 'Rich Dad, Poor Dad' today. Are there any other financial books you guys can recommend to me, as a future budding rich man? heh, thanks in advance
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Check out the link in my sig.

If you're interested in real estate, join your local REIA
 

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Str8Up's thread is garbage. That thing was spawned during an era of easy credit and precipitated up until the housing crash. The dude eventually quit real estate and eventually left the board. Rich dad poor dad is also trash. Kiyosaki writes a bunch of feel good crap with no real substance. However, one may argue that it gears you into the right mindset, so to this end I can't totally hate on the book.

Here are some books i'd recommend.

Atlas Shrugged This is a riveting look at how society operates. I can't say I agree with all points, but Rand really nails a few key issues that society is dealing with today.

Greatest trade ever hedge fund John Paulson makes millions betting against the housing market. I am reading this right now and its a great look into what went wrong, and how you can make money off everyone elses greed.

The intelligent investor graham was a wall street guy for decades who than became a millionaire betting on GEICO. He was buffets professor at Columbia University and one of his biggest influences. This book is dense, but it gives you a good look at huge pitfalls of the stock markets, and what businesses do to lie to you. Its messages are timeless.

Buffetology Recommended by a poster on this forum, this is a cut and dry look at value investing, and is supplementary to the intelligent investor. Want a way to look at a company, value its shares, and buy for the long term? Look at this. Its a quick read too.

My life as a quant This is a different angle than the rest. It is about the life of a physicist turned quant engineer. more than anything it gives you a look at what goes on behind the scenes. There is a lot of brain power going into the big financial markets. One would be silly to think one could out play these guys, so the book gives you a humbling respect for the markets.

These are all I can think of off the top of my head. I am sure there are more out there, and there are better ones more specific to finance.
 

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Alright thanks guys. Be checking out those books when I have the time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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