"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Good fall date ideas?

supajsilver2

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I've read AmgineEx's thread in the HS bible but with the weather getting colder, being too young to drive, and having too many damn movie dates, anyone got a good date idea for me? There's only one park around town, and I guess we could take a walk/bike ride there, but it's chilly in michigan this time of year...pretty much every time of year. Something creative?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Anything is a date, let her tag along to the grocery store to help you buy food....coffee....pool bars....bowling....even just hanging out works.
 

Phat

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haunted hay rides - Since Holloween is coming up.
Bowling
 

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anything is fun if you make it fun.
my favorite is geting food, like chipotle. :)
 
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take her shopping for once i mean cmon

starbucks

have a couples game night:
1)u need a good game
2) coffee for the cafine freaks (i have ADD so it makes me sleepy)
3)DVD for after the game
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'd like to put emphasis on what phat said haunted hay rides/houses the combination of the colder weather + scary environment = major kino and possible cuddling for warmth. That date can go in for any time.

A good 3rd, 4th+ date would be a cider mill, at the apple orchard, etc.
Or even go rake some leaves together and make one of those halloween decorations, preferably at her house...that way you get some brownie points from her parents too. This is another one where you can apply a lot of kino.
 

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i think mall dates are the best. exepect when she starts checking out clothes..
 

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excellent, thanks for the responses guys...haunted house/hay rides, holy sh*t, love the idea. kino central. also, thanks for the reminder that ANYTHING is a date--i've been bumming lately because football and homework take up my after school times monday through friday, and even weekends have been busy lately (if i'm not, she is, if she's not, i am). props to everyone though.:rockon:
 
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