"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good Excuses... I Mean Really Good

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Ok guys what things do you think are good excuses and legit excuses for when you ask a girl out and she says no because shes busy or something, like when you know its not low interest.

At the moment I've got a girl saying that she needs to study for exams we've been out twice already so its not the first date. Does that sound pretty legit? I would say yes, this is the only day we're both free aswell, and is a day before the exams.

What excuses have you guys come across where you just think that what she's just said is a load of BS and she's just blowing you off? Like pretty obvious and stupid excuses... I would like to hear your stories.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Who cares what her excuse is! Play your own game. Remember that you can only control yourself. The fact is if she's making excuse, your not going to change her mind, her mind is already made up. The only thing you can do is to make yourself attractive so that she wants to be with you.

So after she makes an excuse, be the happy go lucky guy and move on. If you ask her something and she comes up with an excuse, I would counter one more time for a different evening. After that its time to get the hint. If she's genuinely busy she'll get back to you. However by walking away, your putting the onus on her to chase you. Start spinning a new plate. She'll be more attractive to someone who is attractive to other women.

No women wants the guy that sits at home waiting for her to call him back. They want the shiny toy that every other girl is playing with. So be that toy.
 
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MacAvoy said:
Who cares what her excuse is! Play your own game. Remember that you can only control yourself.
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Exactly, this is why it is best that you have a good amount of #s that you can call so if one flakes on the date you set, you could call a different girl to try and get that date with. An another good thing to do is if you have a feeling she is going to flake then tell her to meet up with you at a place that are going to have other women around that way if she flakes, you can just approach the women in the venue.
 
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