"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Good Examples of the Adventure-date

NeverFear

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"I'm checking out the saturn exhibit at the griffith planetarium saturday afternoon. You should come"


"ever been to an apple bob? you look like a country girl"

"ever seen a car go by at two hundred miles an hour"?

"I'll bet your the type of woman who can handle REALLY hot asian food"

"Ill bet a dollar you're the worst karaoke singer of all time"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dietzcoi

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Try anything with shooting, trust me, most have not done it and will like it.

Shoot guns, bow & arrow, air rifles, slingshots, you name it.

It is something adventurous to women.

Dietzcoi
 

amokk23

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Take her anywhere and do anything just make sure you know what your doing (or at least have some sort of idea ) and don’t get shunned by someone that works there or just happens to be there who is an expert at it.

Let them know you are the Alpha Male but your there to have fun and DJ on the HB.

and whatever you do don't EVER get intimidated by this fools. They will eat you up and Most guys will not give a second thought to showing you off in front of a HB.

If you feel like you’re been dominated and losing the alpha, play it cool and say to her with a over powering confident voice and a slight grin.

'I think I have made enough fool out of myself for today :p lets go to So and So and I'll show you where my real skills are.' (take her home and show her your massage skills :p , u figure it out)

Unless you were born with good athletic and co-ordination skills I wouldn’t recommend doing sometime extreme like rock climbing for the first time on a first date.

Things like jet skiing or para sailing are pretty easy to master, and you get to have your HB clinging to your manly body. LOL

Out.
 

Clownboy

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Myself, I'm taking the hostess from my workplace to the Ringling Bros. Circus this week. I used to tour with the show myself and still have some friends there, so I'll be able to show her what it's like backstage and take her to the circus train.

BTW: There's a post about doing magic. That's how I got her interest level up. She wanted to know the secret of my trick but I told her only my nearest and dearest learn my secrets and she ain't neither. That got her...
 

Skel

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LOL sorry for laughing, I can just picutre you now.....This is what i use to do, fly off the trapizee into a flaming hoop of fire and then dive into the lion cage over there, you impressed?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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