Good escalation?

[ElStud]

Well I can get girls into me, conversation wise, but I don't know what exactly good escalation is. You know, escalation that will REALLY tell you where she's at. Something I've also noticed is there will just be bad/weird sets. You know, sets where for whatever reason the girls want to act b*tchy. I tend to ignore these sets. One thing I particularly hate is when you're gaming a girl and her jealous friend comes in. I just say f*ck that sh*t cause I don't even care that much to get into all that drama, so I eject. There was also one set where the girl said she was creeped out for whatever reason. Other than THOSE two the many sets I approached today mostly showed interest.

Only reason I probably haven't gotten anywhere with a girl is one thing, I don't escalate. And one reason for that is, I don't know the difference between sexual escalation and friendly escalation. I don't know what escalation is good. You know, I don't know what escalation you can do to really see where she's at.

So I want you guys to tell me, what's good escalation?

 

[oakraiderz2]

How about you get a date and dont post until you do?

 

[Aragon034]

You're putting the cart before the horse again.

If you're getting these girls via Cold Approaching Day Game, then it's highly unlikely they'll be receptive of anything bigger than a hug on first meeting. (And even that's pushing it)

Get. More. Day. Twos.

Once you're out with a chick doing something fun and actiony (like mini golf) you can escalate in a fun way. Say, helping her with her putt

I gave you this link before but was probably ignored, here it is again.

DiCarlo Escalation Ladder
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=147259&highlight=Escalation+Ladder

Surprisingly well detailed, and explained escalation ladder for basic kino. Works best with night game, but there's plenty of great info there.)

conversation should be interesting and fun. Talking about yoshi might be good for a laugh, but unless she masturbates with the Wii remote it's not going to get you anything.

keep the conversation flowing and spice it up as it goes along.

 

[sprint]

if you escalate you'll probably just get more "sets" saying that they're creeped out. stop day approaching and try it at parties and stuff. clearly, it's not working out for you.

 

[pua1989]

i donno i guess for me i just put it on the line and when i feel like i can safely touch her ass sexually (not playfully) then i know if i get her alone i just start makin out with her by getting her in the mood by implying sexual things for a few minutes