"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good email response!!

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Guys, I want to post this, it quickly evolved but this woman I found out has these delusions of powerful women who disrespect men, here is the story:

Yesterday afternoon about a 10 minute phone call that ended with her saying I've got to go but I'll call you later...later came and no call, so about 9:00 pm I fired off an email that said:

Me: Hey, when you're done picking your nose don't bother calling me back its too late, nite nite..............an hour later...

Her: Excuse Me? Picking my nose, not a chance.............5:30 this morning...

Me: If you've seen what I've seen maybe you should consider it.

This was from late last night and early this morning, I have been getting these little subtle hints of her superority, she is really hot but not hot enough to put up with any of her delusions of granduer...I'll keep you posted
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BipedGod said:
Guys, I want to post this, it quickly evolved but this woman I found out has these delusions of powerful women who disrespect men, here is the story:

Yesterday afternoon about a 10 minute phone call that ended with her saying I've got to go but I'll call you later...later came and no call, so about 9:00 pm I fired off an email that said:

Me: Hey, when you're done picking your nose don't bother calling me back its too late, nite nite..............an hour later...

Her: Excuse Me? Picking my nose, not a chance.............5:30 this morning...

Me: If you've seen what I've seen maybe you should consider it.

This was from late last night and early this morning, I have been getting these little subtle hints of her superority, she is really hot but not hot enough to put up with any of her delusions of granduer...I'll keep you posted
Overt insults are probably not the best course of action when she disrespects you. I think it would be better to simply say that you expect her to keep her word about all things where you are concerned. Or just do a takeaway and ignore her for a week.
 

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BipedGod said:
Guys, I want to post this, it quickly evolved but this woman I found out has these delusions of powerful women who disrespect men, here is the story:

Yesterday afternoon about a 10 minute phone call that ended with her saying I've got to go but I'll call you later...later came and no call, so about 9:00 pm I fired off an email that said:

Me: Hey, when you're done picking your nose don't bother calling me back its too late, nite nite..............an hour later...

Her: Excuse Me? Picking my nose, not a chance.............5:30 this morning...

Me: If you've seen what I've seen maybe you should consider it.

This was from late last night and early this morning, I have been getting these little subtle hints of her superority, she is really hot but not hot enough to put up with any of her delusions of granduer...I'll keep you posted
Why are you being mean? That shows insecurity. You should be acting as if she doesn't get to you. Don't let her have power over your emotions.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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ksoileau said:
Overt insults are probably not the best course of action when she disrespects you. I think it would be better to simply say that you expect her to keep her word about all things where you are concerned. Or just do a takeaway and ignore her for a week.
I don't know, a guy could get lucky once and actually have the insult pay off........

IT COULD HAPPEN!!!! :whistle:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Her: Excuse Me? Picking my nose, not a chance............"

My response to this would of been, "Yeah take a joke, and stop acting like you've never picked your nose before"

You say shes a "power" kinda girl, if that's the case and she has her head that up in the sky, bring her to your level (which should be HIGHER than hers) and kick her back to reality.

And if she keeps this "I'm better and more powerful than you attitude" I'd tell her she's just a waste of looks, and goodbye
 

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I honestly think, "I'll call you later" has become an expression nowadays, much like "Talk to you later" or "See you later". My friends and I say it all the time, but the only times we mean it literally, we usually have more detail, like, "I'll call you later tonight when I'm close to your place," or "I'll call you tomorrow afternoon and we'll discuss that fantasy trade."

That being said, I'd think the DJ bible would tell you not to care. It's not like you're waiting around for the phone to ring, right? You're a busy man and don't have time to worry about what time she is returning your phone call. If she calls a few days later, I don't even remember that she said she'd call me in the first place; I've moved on already.
 
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