"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Good Drink other than beer

zekko

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Martinis.. Okay, Mr. Bond.
I don't really associate martinis with James Bond unless you say "Shaken, not stirred". Martinis were a rat pack thing also. Anyway, I haven't had a drink in years (not that I'm trying to quit, I just haven't wanted one), but I like martinis. Some people like the sweet mixed drinks, although a lot of the time those are seen as girl's drinks. I used to be fond of tequila sunrises, although from my experience bartenders weren't very good at making them (they put too much grenadine in and the whole drink turns pink).

The Beatles used to drink Jack and Coke.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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R.U.G.

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I don't really associate martinis with James Bond unless you say "Shaken, not stirred". Martinis were a rat pack thing also. Anyway, I haven't had a drink in years (not that I'm trying to quit, I just haven't wanted one), but I like martinis. Some people like the sweet mixed drinks, although a lot of the time those are seen as girl's drinks. I used to be fond of tequila sunrises, although from my experience bartenders weren't very good at making them (they put too much grenadine in and the whole drink turns pink).

The Beatles used to drink Jack and Coke.
I also like Jack and Coke. White Russian is good too. Moscow Mule always great on a hot day or night; not to mention a Long Island Iced-Tea (A/K/A/ Arnold Palmer). All but the Jack & Coke and White Russian are low carb as well.
 

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Old fashioned is my go-to drink. It sucks that most bars don’t know how to make it though..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cannabis-infused drinks.

 
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