"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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good date ideas on a football saturday

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Need some help....

I want to go out with this chick Saturday, it's the only night this week I can. But it's football saturday, and I watch football all d*mn day. Any good date ideas for a first date that I can still watch football? How bout hanging out at an upscale sports bar? Or simply inviting the girl to my house to watch it? H*ll I'm open to any suggestions, I just don't want to miss Auburn-South Carolina lol.......
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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from what I've read, the best date is the one that's free and has her coming to your place

If you're worried about her being bored, invite her over for the 4th quarter
 

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dude take her to hooters
watch the game

war eagle@@@@@@
 

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you could always tell her she can pick the place next time or wherever you go after the game is over
if that helps
 

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war eagle???? i hate that crap :D

penskitten, i always respected your opinion until now, now that I know you're an Aub.....jk....did you go there?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by speedo_meme
war eagle???? i hate that crap :D

penskitten, i always respected your opinion until now, now that I know you're an Aub.....jk....did you go there?
nah i grew up in birmingham and just rooted for auburn especially during iron bowl:)
 
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