"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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good date ideas on a football saturday

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Need some help....

I want to go out with this chick Saturday, it's the only night this week I can. But it's football saturday, and I watch football all d*mn day. Any good date ideas for a first date that I can still watch football? How bout hanging out at an upscale sports bar? Or simply inviting the girl to my house to watch it? H*ll I'm open to any suggestions, I just don't want to miss Auburn-South Carolina lol.......
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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from what I've read, the best date is the one that's free and has her coming to your place

If you're worried about her being bored, invite her over for the 4th quarter
 

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dude take her to hooters
watch the game

war eagle@@@@@@
 

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you could always tell her she can pick the place next time or wherever you go after the game is over
if that helps
 

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war eagle???? i hate that crap :D

penskitten, i always respected your opinion until now, now that I know you're an Aub.....jk....did you go there?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by speedo_meme
war eagle???? i hate that crap :D

penskitten, i always respected your opinion until now, now that I know you're an Aub.....jk....did you go there?
nah i grew up in birmingham and just rooted for auburn especially during iron bowl:)
 
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