Niterider450
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What would be a good compliment or reply?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Good compliment when a chick posts a new photo of herself on facebook?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Just click like and then send her a message. Then move on. If she wants to talk to you, she will.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Facebook = beta..... it's good for family and all, but don't ever try to game on Facebook. Unless she makes the initial response, then you follow up by taking her out, not texting or pm'ing on fb. Delete FB... my interaction with woman have been far better with women since I deleted all social media. They can no longer go onto my FB page and look at my resume (date born, where you work, pics of you and your life, etc..). So if they want to get to know me, we are going to have to do it the old school way and actually go out and have some fun. The women seem to love this, because I guess no one else is doing it.
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Niterider450
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Thanks for the replies I only use facebook to message chicks but this one lives in another city and works two jobs so right I am only getting to talk to her on facebook.
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
It's bad enough guys here post comments about things they did on facebook or if they should do stuff on facebook, but making a thread talking about facebook? I'm actively going to start hitting red to all this $hit.
Niterider450
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Like it or not but the younger girls use facebook to socialize I don't really care for it either but sometimes it has to be used.BetterCallSaul said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
If you must post publicly, make it funny. If you can control yourself a little bit, message her privately. If you have mastery don't post at all.
A model of mine sent me a silly selfie (I make all my models send me one just for ****s and giggles), and the sign behind her said notice, exit only. I responded with, ah you wanted to get noticed. Is it exit only? In return I got some OMG!!!! Ur so cray!
A model of mine sent me a silly selfie (I make all my models send me one just for ****s and giggles), and the sign behind her said notice, exit only. I responded with, ah you wanted to get noticed. Is it exit only? In return I got some OMG!!!! Ur so cray!
Çharismo
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The truth about facebook!!!
Let me lay something out for you.
No matter what you write, no matter how witty or original you think you will be...it won't matter. Don't waste your time liking her pictures or commenting because other people will do it as well. She will either acknowledge you or ignore you but chances are highly that she will ignore you. :yawn:
This is coming from a good looking guy who has a "great" facebook profile. I crafted it as uniquely as possible for maximum social proof...pictures of me modeling, baby pictures, traveling etc. I've done all types of experiments on Facebook and the thing I'm going to tell you and anyone else reading this is to never use facebook to ask a woman out. You can add random people as friends and if they accept that's cool but leave it at that. You can have short conversations with women and that's as far as you will get. Don't ask women out over facebook.
Do it in person.
Whether she has low interest level or not you will only find out if you have the balls to ask her out face to face in person. If she tells you to add her on facebook that's basically a rejection. Don't fall for it!!!
Facebook, twitter, instagram are all bullsh!t. It's all a ploy to get attention that most people lack so don't get sucked into it. This is what most people do on facebook....they update there "status's" everyday, post pictures of food, there kids, getting married, random bull**** and videos. Again never ask anyone out over facebook. Even pictures that people post you have to look at them very carefully. Women will post pictures from angles hiding there ugliness and there physique.
I have a facebook account as well just to have an online presence but what I'm doing now is trying to max out my friends list but even THAT isn't working because people don't want to accept my requests. It's funny because these are the same people that have 1000+ friends and don't accept my request for reasons I don't know. The other thing I use it for is to watch videos that people post up and stay up to date with what's hip or what are the new trends that everyone is following for example :- ALS Ice bucket challenge. It's a good way to stay in tune with what's going on in the world but other than that it serves no purpose.
Let me lay something out for you.
No matter what you write, no matter how witty or original you think you will be...it won't matter. Don't waste your time liking her pictures or commenting because other people will do it as well. She will either acknowledge you or ignore you but chances are highly that she will ignore you. :yawn:
This is coming from a good looking guy who has a "great" facebook profile. I crafted it as uniquely as possible for maximum social proof...pictures of me modeling, baby pictures, traveling etc. I've done all types of experiments on Facebook and the thing I'm going to tell you and anyone else reading this is to never use facebook to ask a woman out. You can add random people as friends and if they accept that's cool but leave it at that. You can have short conversations with women and that's as far as you will get. Don't ask women out over facebook.
Do it in person.
Whether she has low interest level or not you will only find out if you have the balls to ask her out face to face in person. If she tells you to add her on facebook that's basically a rejection. Don't fall for it!!!
Facebook, twitter, instagram are all bullsh!t. It's all a ploy to get attention that most people lack so don't get sucked into it. This is what most people do on facebook....they update there "status's" everyday, post pictures of food, there kids, getting married, random bull**** and videos. Again never ask anyone out over facebook. Even pictures that people post you have to look at them very carefully. Women will post pictures from angles hiding there ugliness and there physique.
I have a facebook account as well just to have an online presence but what I'm doing now is trying to max out my friends list but even THAT isn't working because people don't want to accept my requests. It's funny because these are the same people that have 1000+ friends and don't accept my request for reasons I don't know. The other thing I use it for is to watch videos that people post up and stay up to date with what's hip or what are the new trends that everyone is following for example :- ALS Ice bucket challenge. It's a good way to stay in tune with what's going on in the world but other than that it serves no purpose.
scrouds
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Nice tits
MatureDJ
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I use this when I am trolling around the local website in Eastern Europe:
Olga (or whoever), I have enjoyed looking at your photos, especially ...
A simple complement that says that you find her attractive without looking like an idiot. Sometimes she asks what I find so interesting, which moves us to the next level of conversation.
Olga (or whoever), I have enjoyed looking at your photos, especially ...
A simple complement that says that you find her attractive without looking like an idiot. Sometimes she asks what I find so interesting, which moves us to the next level of conversation.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
"6 out of 10..would fück...call me!"
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Tictac
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I bet you don't sweat much for a fat chick.