"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good colognes

NeedToImprove

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can someone tell me about some classy colognes, for day and night wear?

thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vulpine

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Search, Search, he's our man. If he can't answer your questions, no one can!

:cheer:
 

Mr_knowit_all

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I'm kind of a cologne nut, so here is what I've used. These colognes have gotten the most favorable comments from women.

"Polo Blue"
"Joop"
"Chrome"
"L'eau D'Issey"
"Desire Blue"

My personal favorite is "Chrome". In my opinion, it has a nice "soapy" scent that's not overpowering. It's also quite cost effective.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mixmasterbert

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is it good to go with old classics that girls know or new smells that girls haven't heard of yet?
 
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Dolce y Gabana is great
Chrome Azzaro is great
Eternity by Calvin Klein

eh I own Chrome and Eternity but want Dolce and Gabana, I've smelled some pretty good ones but other than that, I have no idea.
 

El Don

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issey miyake and aqua di gio are the best. Girls cant get enough of them
 

RazedNegative

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I have a small bottle of this stuff called Curve Crush in my collection, dunno if its even still available, but chicks seem to dig it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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elemenohpee

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My top three

*Chanel Allure for men - girls love it!
*Jean Paul Gaultier - see above
*Polo sport
 

PUCKEE

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4 pages

There is a thread on this already in anything else.
 

i am me

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anyone else hav Mambo? its one of my favorite smells...and i hav Blue Sky (Paris Hilton for men). yea it sounds gay but its a good smell imo and its a good value for the size of the bottle
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Eccentric

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Xeryus. Might have to buy it online, not many stores carry it. Atleast it's that way around here.
 

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O.K. Im gonna break it down nice and easy. These are all you will need.
"Spark" by Liz Claiborne(Casual)
"Chrome" By Arazzo(Casual or Evening)
"Allure" by Chanel(Hands down the best I have ever smelt)
"Boss In Motion" by Hugo Boss(Daytime only,citrusy)
"Design for Him" by Paul Sebastain(sp?),"Raw Vanilla" by Coty and "Curve Crush",these three are my "junkers" sort of speak as I dont wear them on dates because I have plenty better but they are good for a change of pace.

My friend has some Arabic cologne he brought back from Jordan,that stuff is amazing!
 

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i have all these colones b/c im an adict and love to smell good, my all time favorite colone by guys and gals is the Armani mania.....good luck
 

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I was thinking about getting Allure last weekend. Never smelt it, someone told me it was great though. Now I'm seeing here. Probably pick it up tomorrow.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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