"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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good college class to take for DJs

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i took this class called Human Communications last semester,, i tought you how to read body language, how to tell if a person is feeling you or not, how to talk to people correctly, and all sorts of stuff.

anyway i just wanted to post this for all the peoples in college., if you are able to take a human communications class i'd say take it. its not like speech, although you do have to get some.

its well worth it. oh yeah, i saved the book too. once i find it i'm gonna type out some facts from the book about getting girls hhahaHAHA

who would have thought, a college class on dating. :rockon:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anything with PSYCHOLOGY.

I am a psychology major and the ratio of women to men is at least 80/20--maybe even 85/15. :up:
 

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Psychology is cool.

Anything to do with sex.

But then again, anything else.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Social_disturbance said:
Anything with PSYCHOLOGY.

I am a psychology major and the ratio of women to men is at least 80/20--maybe even 85/15. :up:
Regroup men, REGROUP!!! Can't you see you are surronded by the enemy!~ lmao
 

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Psychology is practically all women. It's the department that so many girls go into because they have a couple of years of undergrad down and hit that 3rd year... then realize they still don't know what they're interested in yet.

And psyche is easy, too.

Watch out for the biology component, though... ouch.
 

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phatboi408 said:
I know alot of girls who are majoring in PSYCHOLOGY. Why so many girls?

Can you give the basic info that the class teaches you?

I am planning on a business major, because I don't really know what I want to major in.
Nothing against Psychology, but a lot of people pick that major if they don't know what they want to major in because the lower-level classes are easy and it leaves room for a lot of electives.
 
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