"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Good Beginner's Weightlifting Routine

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I will give credit where credit is due and direct you to the Bodybuilding.com forum, to read what the experts have to say. First, read a sticky about the most common mistakes made by beginners:

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=118004321&page=1

Basically too many exercises in your program, too much weight, too much focus on the chest and upper arms when you should be training your whole body both for looks and durability. Too much isolation when you should be doing compound exercises.

Now for a good beginner's program, stickied at Bodybuilding.com. You can do other programs too, but remember that what works for an athlete might not work for you. This program will definitely give you results when you start working out. And you can do it with either barbells or dumbbells, which are the best pieces of equipment in the gym - or at home.

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=4195843

In short: Squats, bent-over row, overhead press, bench press, deadlifts, curls, calf raises.

Feel those squats! Feel those deadlifts! And the rest. A short but efficient program that takes about an hour.

(You are not too lazy to click on a link, are you? This is your body we're talking about, and I won't copy someone else's excellent post, nor the good answers to that post. Check it out at Bodybuilding.com, it is worth your time.)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you missed the two most important exercises known to mankind

meet ms.chin up and mr.pull up

they improve your grip, forearm strength,biceps,lats,shoulders you name it.
do you know why the pullup bar is always FREE? because its difficult. ive never seen anyone go at it for more than 5 reps.

i use a tree to do pull ups and chins.i love them.
 

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switch said:
you missed the two most important exercises known to mankind

meet ms.chin up and mr.pull up

they improve your grip, forearm strength,biceps,lats,shoulders you name it.
do you know why the pullup bar is always FREE? because its difficult. ive never seen anyone go at it for more than 5 reps.

i use a tree to do pull ups and chins.i love them.
True, true. Pullups and chinups are great. I didn't include them because they are not in the beginner's program I link to, and I want to keep it short - it is a real problem for people, that they pile on too many exercises in the beginning. Also I was thinking of what you can do at home, and most people won't install a pullup bar at home or have access to a good tree nearby. But they are definitely also good exercises.
 

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switch said:
you missed the two most important exercises known to mankind

meet ms.chin up and mr.pull up

they improve your grip, forearm strength,biceps,lats,shoulders you name it.
do you know why the pullup bar is always FREE? because its difficult. ive never seen anyone go at it for more than 5 reps.

i use a tree to do pull ups and chins.i love them.
100% correct mr switch.
Lat pulldowns to build the starter strength though. When I first started lifting, i could barely do 5 pullups close grip.

Lat pulldowns to get started and now do I wide grip pull up sets with 20 or 25 kg plates on my belt. I weigh 92kg, so thats a pretty good bit of weight right there :D
 
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does 10 reps (wide grip) easily

can 1RM with 50lb weight

weighed in at 83kg's today.. this time last year I was 74Kg's ....feels good man. only added 2% bodyfat approx.




definatley add pullups (assisted) for noobs.. or lat pulldowns.
the best thing to do is hang from the bar, put a swissball under your feet & try not to use your legs to get you up.. but use them as necesary to complete the set.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Purefilth said:
100% correct mr switch.
Lat pulldowns to build the starter strength though. When I first started lifting, i could barely do 5 pullups close grip.
The best way to get better at something is to do it. There are plenty of different methods to get better at doing pull-ups/chin-ups but they all involve the actual exercise--not doing other exercises to "build up strength". Certain compound exercises transfer over into other compound exercises but lat pulldowns don't increase your pull-up/chin-up strength. I can understand why someone would think that but it's simply not true.
 
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