"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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good article - brief

joekerr31

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http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/s...vZGF5BHNsawN0aHJlZS1zaW1wbGUtcnVsZXMEenoDYWJj

this was on yahoo. it was very brief, but written by a woman (with a phd).

great advice. simple. concise. and accurate.

what i find funny is that the article has been rated by 303 people and its given only a 2 out of 5 stars.

i mean, wtf. when you read the comments people are saying 'she's probably a lesbian'

just because she takes a middle of the road, simple approach and doesn't join in with your typical gender war bullsh*t.

her 3 points are key points to keep front of mind when dating or assessing someone as a potential mate.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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maybe they rated it two stars because it was like half a sentence long.
 

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Its funny and incredibly sad how when a woman tells the truth all the other women turn on her like a pack of jackals.

Esther Vilar received death threats from feminists for writing the Manipulative Man.

Don't know if its gone that far for this woman here but I wouldn't be surprised.
 
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