Canadian Catnip
Senior Don Juan
I just read this article and was thinking about the DJ way. A DJ doesn't look for validation from women.
I've been fighting with this a lot lately. I keep putting all my value of who I am based on weather women are attracted to me or not.
Funny, I have had the most success when I don't care.
Anyway it's a good short read and gets to the heart of why this attraction stuff is biological.
The truth about cunnilingus
http://dirtywriter.net/?p=521
There are more reasons to do this other than mere drunken lust. Guys who are not drunk or excessively horny do it chiefly to impress women.
The idea there is that even if you you lack the ability to perform with your genitals, at least she will be at least partly satisfied with you having given her **** a tongue-bath. In the early stages of a relationship, when you are still trying to prove what a great guy are, you are still curious, you still want more contact with the crotch, and what better contact is there than sticking your face right down into it?
Eunuchs
The male eagerness to please a woman is a sign of men having been castrated, broken husks desperate for any validation of their maleness (like making a woman come) even if it involves doing something that any lesbian will likely be better at. If it's distasteful for you, or boring, but you do it anyway, then basically you are pleasing somebody else against your will. That makes you a *****, hence the castrated, broken husk description of you above. This is the main reason women like it, the subjugation/domination thing. She is Cleopatra, Nile demigoddess, while you are a worshipful slave sex-toy slobbering away for her satisfaction with no thought to your own dignity.
Aroma
There is the matter of the smell and the proximity to the anus. In theory, neither of these is distasteful to any man who is with a woman he is attracted to. In practice it's a little bit more complicated. For the first few times she is new flesh, and your gag-reflex is overcome by the sense of adventure, of exploring new territories. However, after those have been well-explored, you start seeing what's wrong with them (like smell and proximity to where **** comes out), or at least have no real reason to bother going over them again. Alcohol works by making boring old things feel new and fun again.
Heterosexual women usually enjoy penetration, often more than the men who penetrate them. Penetration provides mutual satisfaction and is therefore more efficient. She gets off, you get off, everybody is at least satisfied, if not all the way happy.
I've been fighting with this a lot lately. I keep putting all my value of who I am based on weather women are attracted to me or not.
Funny, I have had the most success when I don't care.
Anyway it's a good short read and gets to the heart of why this attraction stuff is biological.
The truth about cunnilingus
http://dirtywriter.net/?p=521
There are more reasons to do this other than mere drunken lust. Guys who are not drunk or excessively horny do it chiefly to impress women.
The idea there is that even if you you lack the ability to perform with your genitals, at least she will be at least partly satisfied with you having given her **** a tongue-bath. In the early stages of a relationship, when you are still trying to prove what a great guy are, you are still curious, you still want more contact with the crotch, and what better contact is there than sticking your face right down into it?
Eunuchs
The male eagerness to please a woman is a sign of men having been castrated, broken husks desperate for any validation of their maleness (like making a woman come) even if it involves doing something that any lesbian will likely be better at. If it's distasteful for you, or boring, but you do it anyway, then basically you are pleasing somebody else against your will. That makes you a *****, hence the castrated, broken husk description of you above. This is the main reason women like it, the subjugation/domination thing. She is Cleopatra, Nile demigoddess, while you are a worshipful slave sex-toy slobbering away for her satisfaction with no thought to your own dignity.
Aroma
There is the matter of the smell and the proximity to the anus. In theory, neither of these is distasteful to any man who is with a woman he is attracted to. In practice it's a little bit more complicated. For the first few times she is new flesh, and your gag-reflex is overcome by the sense of adventure, of exploring new territories. However, after those have been well-explored, you start seeing what's wrong with them (like smell and proximity to where **** comes out), or at least have no real reason to bother going over them again. Alcohol works by making boring old things feel new and fun again.
Heterosexual women usually enjoy penetration, often more than the men who penetrate them. Penetration provides mutual satisfaction and is therefore more efficient. She gets off, you get off, everybody is at least satisfied, if not all the way happy.