"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey guys,

This girl that I'm interested in loves suprises. Since I know her sister, I was planning on leaving something at her house on Friday so that she would see it when she gets home.

My first impulse was roses. However, roses are ****he’ . I want to go with something more original.

I would really like to come up with something, but I was hoping you guys could give me some advice, or share your ideas of what could be done. Any advice will be greatly appreciated.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hmm... some date proposal?

Concert tickets? Some sport game tickets? Movie tickets?

*shrug* I dunno, I'd just surprise her by making a move like asking her out. :)
 
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Good ideas.

But I guess I should have made something clear. Her and I are kind-of dating as it stands. I'm caught up in this weird love-triangle.. and I'm trying to help turn the tides.

That's why asking her out would work, but I want her to know that I was thinking about her enough to suprise her.

And concert tickets is an awesome idea, but we're already going to a concert in March.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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