Hey guys, just need some opinions on a good afternoon date activity, i have ice skating at our new arena in mind, but i need a good backup......anyone have some ideas that are fun, but not too 'out there'? Just wondering, thanks 
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good afternoon date activity?
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white_hype
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take her on one of your errands
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LOL!
Seriously though, the search option is your friend.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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Ok, update, i am talking to her on MSN, and i suggested ice skating, and she said....here is the quote:
me:
ice skating at the new arena
me:
ive never been and its on on friday afternoons
her:
lol
her:
hmmmmmm
her:
that's kinda..something romantic almost
me:
is it?
her:
you know it!!!?
her:
any other ideas?
But then later she suggests ordering in and watching a movie?!? She is also apparently a little sick still.........ideas? Opinions?
me:
ice skating at the new arena
me:
ive never been and its on on friday afternoons
her:
lol
her:
hmmmmmm
her:
that's kinda..something romantic almost
me:
is it?
her:
you know it!!!?
her:
any other ideas?
But then later she suggests ordering in and watching a movie?!? She is also apparently a little sick still.........ideas? Opinions?
OK here is some more........
her:
I guess what you had in mind was a movie thought you said you were going to rent one with me to keep me company or something like that.
me:
well what would your idea be then?
her:
I dont know?
her:
I just thougth we were taking it easy
her:
talking and what not
Ok, is it just me, or do i get the hint of some LJBF coming on? Im not going to sit there with her on a separate couch wrapped up in a blanket and talk about doing our nails. I would like to think i know her well enough to know what she is saying, but........?
her:
I guess what you had in mind was a movie
thought you said you were going to rent one with me to keep me company or something like that.me:
well what would your idea be then?
her:
I dont know?
her:
I just thougth we were taking it easy
her:
talking and what not
Ok, is it just me, or do i get the hint of some LJBF coming on? Im not going to sit there with her on a separate couch wrapped up in a blanket and talk about doing our nails. I would like to think i know her well enough to know what she is saying, but........?
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
GODDAMMIT can someone please slap me now... i cant believe you're missing this obvious come on!
jesus. why the hell would she invite you over to her place dude? think about it... it gives you more of a chance to cuddle up to her and get your game on... while at the skating rink, its more of an open place/public, therefore its a little difficult to get cosy with her...
the renting a movie and staying in is just a lame excuse to finally get some pvssy at the end of the day... go to her house for gods sake. and rent a horror flick, girls like to cling to you at the scary bits. (even if they aren't scared, it gives them the opportunity) and i'm sure you can take it from there mate...
jesus. why the hell would she invite you over to her place dude? think about it... it gives you more of a chance to cuddle up to her and get your game on... while at the skating rink, its more of an open place/public, therefore its a little difficult to get cosy with her...
the renting a movie and staying in is just a lame excuse to finally get some pvssy at the end of the day... go to her house for gods sake. and rent a horror flick, girls like to cling to you at the scary bits. (even if they aren't scared, it gives them the opportunity) and i'm sure you can take it from there mate...
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I don't think it's good to ask people out over messengers. I think this girl is interested in you, but not sure how much yet so she wants to take things slow. Just go over and watch a movie.
-HPNOTIQ-
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She's trying to test you. Trying to see if you're like all the other AFC's trying to do the 'romantic' stuff. Personally, I think I'd be turned off by a woman saying let's take it easy when you guys haven't even done anything yet. Looks like her IL in you isn't that high, and that she's purposely trying to push you in the LJBF zone.
The only time I'll accept hearing 'Lets take it slow' is if my d*ck is in her mouth and she doesn't want me to f*ck her. Thats all good.
Should you next this girl? Nahh...you have to run damage control and reverse this situation. Tell her something C/F like..
"awww...don't think for a second that I'm THAT easy....it takes a lot more than ice skating before I let a girl molest me...lets go to blah blah theather and watch blah blah flick..after..we'll hit up cafe blah blah for the live band and some drinks...and I'll even let you pay for me cuz I'm such a nice like that..."
be ****y funny...reverse any ideas that she may think you are AFC..neg hit her...bring her back down to earth..
read this article by grey fox regardin first date idea...he has a whole series on the first call, the fist date, the second date..the call back.etc...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=31426&highlight=grey+first+date
The only time I'll accept hearing 'Lets take it slow' is if my d*ck is in her mouth and she doesn't want me to f*ck her. Thats all good.
Should you next this girl? Nahh...you have to run damage control and reverse this situation. Tell her something C/F like..
"awww...don't think for a second that I'm THAT easy....it takes a lot more than ice skating before I let a girl molest me...lets go to blah blah theather and watch blah blah flick..after..we'll hit up cafe blah blah for the live band and some drinks...and I'll even let you pay for me cuz I'm such a nice like that..."
be ****y funny...reverse any ideas that she may think you are AFC..neg hit her...bring her back down to earth..
read this article by grey fox regardin first date idea...he has a whole series on the first call, the fist date, the second date..the call back.etc...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=31426&highlight=grey+first+date
Heh, well thanks for the vote of confidence Jakeyboy!! I guess the way it spells out to you guys is like this:
me: lets go ice skating!!
her: wouldnt ordering in, a movie and hot sex be better?
LOL.....the thing is though, i would like to think i know her and can pick up on her cues pretty good......and for some reason this seems like second place to me......'apparently' she isnt feeling the best, but i would think she would have pulled the 'sick' card to reject the skating idea instead of the 'isnt that TOO romantic?' card?
me: lets go ice skating!!
her: wouldnt ordering in, a movie and hot sex be better?
LOL.....the thing is though, i would like to think i know her and can pick up on her cues pretty good......and for some reason this seems like second place to me......'apparently' she isnt feeling the best, but i would think she would have pulled the 'sick' card to reject the skating idea instead of the 'isnt that TOO romantic?' card?
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
its an excuse to get you over to her house mate... just go over and get the heat on.. i can guarantee that if ya got the balls (and i'm sure you do), definitely something will happen that afternoon... trust me
Wow, the replies coming fast and furious
-HPNOTIQ-
This isnt our first date.....we have went out, i would say, 5-6 times in the last few months. I DID make the mistake of telling her how i felt about her a little while back......but did it in a C+F way (C+F is totally my nature, BTW). I am trying to remember when she pulled her game on me tho, we rented a movie a while back, but i cant remember if it was BEFORE i told her how i felt, or AFTER........but she put the hints out like crazy that night!!!!!......i was just so into the movie i didnt really think about it until later. Hey come on, it was Starsky and Hutch! But yeah, i slapped myself a little that night......but like i have said in my previous posts, im sure i can still feel the tension between us, every time i kino her, she kind of tenses up but never pulls away. And we have HUGE eye contact, she looks me straight in the eye for MINUTES at a time when we talk, sometimes it feels like she is qualifying me, but also sometimes i feel like she thinks i am too 'bad' (ie. bad boy type) for her or something?
jakeyboy: again, thanks for the vote of confidence.....i just have a 'feeling', based on knowing her, that when she says something like........'isnt that a little TOO romantic?' she means it......i mean, why would a woman say that? Wouldnt she just say " Doesnt a movie and take out at my place sound better?" Although, i DO hope you are right man
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This isnt our first date.....we have went out, i would say, 5-6 times in the last few months. I DID make the mistake of telling her how i felt about her a little while back......but did it in a C+F way (C+F is totally my nature, BTW). I am trying to remember when she pulled her game on me tho, we rented a movie a while back, but i cant remember if it was BEFORE i told her how i felt, or AFTER........but she put the hints out like crazy that night!!!!!......i was just so into the movie i didnt really think about it until later. Hey come on, it was Starsky and Hutch! But yeah, i slapped myself a little that night......but like i have said in my previous posts, im sure i can still feel the tension between us, every time i kino her, she kind of tenses up but never pulls away. And we have HUGE eye contact, she looks me straight in the eye for MINUTES at a time when we talk, sometimes it feels like she is qualifying me, but also sometimes i feel like she thinks i am too 'bad' (ie. bad boy type) for her or something?
jakeyboy: again, thanks for the vote of confidence.....i just have a 'feeling', based on knowing her, that when she says something like........'isnt that a little TOO romantic?' she means it......i mean, why would a woman say that? Wouldnt she just say " Doesnt a movie and take out at my place sound better?" Although, i DO hope you are right man
Oh, and hpnotiq, i totally hear ya on the damage control I have ALWAYS been C+F with her, as i said, it is totally my way. I am a real a$$hole, but in a funny way!!! Heheh...I have to honestly say tho, i have a bit of a case of one-itis with this chick, i even thought about her while me and my summer fling had sex Although, never fear, i HAVE got other chicks lined up, and more to come
I have ALWAYS been C+F with her, as i said, it is totally my way. I am a real a$$hole, but in a funny way!!! Heheh...I have to honestly say tho, i have a bit of a case of one-itis with this chick, i even thought about her while me and my summer fling had sex Although, never fear, i HAVE got other chicks lined up, and more to come jakeyboy
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her: don't you think ice skating is a little too romantic
me: so you falling over and me laughing my ass off is your idea of overly romantic? tsktsk. girls these days.
me: so you falling over and me laughing my ass off is your idea of overly romantic? tsktsk. girls these days.
-HPNOTIQ-
Master Don Juan
dood..fawk her already..
all the signs are all there...fawk the romantic sh*t...sounds like she wants to rawdoggit...she sounds like good FB material..
more advice to for ya:
romantic = if she swallows
non-romantic = if she spits
haha..good luck bro
all the signs are all there...fawk the romantic sh*t...sounds like she wants to rawdoggit...she sounds like good FB material..
more advice to for ya:
romantic = if she swallows
non-romantic = if she spits
haha..good luck bro
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wtf? you have been out with her for 5-6 times and you still dont know what to do?!?!
if you havent made a move its probably too late... she might have thought, wtf this guy hasnt tried anything on 5 dates? i guess he likes me as a friend or something, oh well, i guess he can chat with me when im sick
DO NOT GO TO HER HOUSE UNLESS you know for sure you can get action...
and shes SICK.. ive messed around with a "sick" girl (iddnt know it at the time) and got strep throat and was OUT ON MY ASS for 2 dam weeks... missed A LOT OF ****
totally not worth it
have something better to do with your life than talk with a sick girl on a friday night, go out and SARGE
if you havent made a move its probably too late... she might have thought, wtf this guy hasnt tried anything on 5 dates? i guess he likes me as a friend or something, oh well, i guess he can chat with me when im sick
DO NOT GO TO HER HOUSE UNLESS you know for sure you can get action...
and shes SICK.. ive messed around with a "sick" girl (iddnt know it at the time) and got strep throat and was OUT ON MY ASS for 2 dam weeks... missed A LOT OF ****
totally not worth it
have something better to do with your life than talk with a sick girl on a friday night, go out and SARGE
Heh, i have just had a revelation!!! Just talked with my sis (LOL) on the phone for like an hour, talking women/men sh*t......and you know what? I really think there are 1 of 2 things going on here:
1. She is TOTALLY INTO SEX, but not too sure about anything beyond that....OR
2. She really DOES just want a LJBF
The evidence comes from a few sources:
a) Afaik, i am the ONLY guy she invites over to her house to hang out,
b) At least once, she has made (subtle) moves on me, which i ignored ( i know, i know)
c) Everything she wants to do with me seems to revolve around being at her place
Lol..........well i am definitely thinking different now, i just went through my MSN logs with this in mind, and it seems to make more sense
1. She is TOTALLY INTO SEX, but not too sure about anything beyond that....OR
2. She really DOES just want a LJBF
The evidence comes from a few sources:
a) Afaik, i am the ONLY guy she invites over to her house to hang out,
b) At least once, she has made (subtle) moves on me, which i ignored ( i know, i know)
c) Everything she wants to do with me seems to revolve around being at her place
Lol..........well i am definitely thinking different now, i just went through my MSN logs with this in mind, and it seems to make more sense
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At this point, I think you've taken way too much time to come to a conclusion that may or may not be right. After all this posting, reading, talking on the phone for two hours it doesn't seem like you are as confident as you should be. In that amount of time you could have met a dozen more women or you could have made lots of money or you could have solved the terrible secret of space. Sorry to be hard on you, but just go to her house or go ice skating or whatever. Just do it already.
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
yup. dont overanalyze already. right now... you may want to believe she is hopelessly in love with you and think of every sign as a sign of interest.
however, you may be looking too deep into things, what with talking with your sister on the phone about this chick?. dont worry about what she thinks of you... as Dapper said... do already. if in the end you figure that she isn't into you... you'll be totally heartbroken. because you choose to use her every movement and sentence now as an interest level gauge. which is a big nono... let it slide bro... the more you read into her actions, the more wary you will be around her... and trust me, she will know it.
however, you may be looking too deep into things, what with talking with your sister on the phone about this chick?. dont worry about what she thinks of you... as Dapper said... do already. if in the end you figure that she isn't into you... you'll be totally heartbroken. because you choose to use her every movement and sentence now as an interest level gauge. which is a big nono... let it slide bro... the more you read into her actions, the more wary you will be around her... and trust me, she will know it.
